A month or so ago I posted a request for prayers and good thoughts for my sister after she ahd been told that an MRI had detected a tumor in her brain.
Friday she went to a specialist to get a second opinion. This time the tests showed a clean bill of health, so we are all breathing a big sigh of relief.
My mom said that the first MRI had shown a shadow on the film, leading the doctor to tell my sister that it looked like she had a tumor. If I were her, I’d be thoroughly pissed at the first doctor for not being more guarded in his diagnosis.
Oh gobear, that’s wonderful news! I am so happy for you and your whole family!
Damned straight.
I have a friend who was bluntly told by a doctor that he had a fatal disease which would kill him in a few months. He was told to get his affairs in order, because time was short.
That was about 14 years ago and he’s still pretty damned mean and healthy. Needless to say, he was quite upset by the doctor’s original diagnosis. (He did get a second opinion, thankfully.)
So would I, but I guess I’d rather have it this way than having a doctor say “oh, it’s nothing, don’t worry,” then hearing six months later “if only we’d caught it sooner.”
This happened to my son. He had some rectal bleeding. We took him to the hospital and the ER doctor asked him if he drinks. He says yes, and the Dr. proceeds to say that his liver is shutting down and he can never take another drink, etc…all while he’s on the ER examining table BEFORE any tests have been done. Turned out to be colitis. Mild colitis. Stupid fuck. Glad to hear your sister is OK.
My family went through a similar case with my dad a few years back - a shadow on an x-ray that his GP (originally trained in oncology) thought was bone cancer. And of course that was the first thing the doc told us. But when I did some research I found that bone cancer is pretty rare as an initial diagnosis; usually it’s spread from somewhere else, and Dad’s health was pretty good otherwise. We finally got a diagnosis of Paget’s disease, a fairly common, not life-threatening condition among older people of Western European descent (IOW, my dad). Still resent the fact that “cancer” was the only thing the doc initially told us.