I’m reading a novel, The Art of Inheriting Secrets by Barbara O’Neal. (Can’t recommend it. So far.) I have a question about a subject we’ve covered here before, particularly back when Downton Abbey was in its first run-- inherited titles and forms of address.
In this novel, an American woman, Olivia Shaw, has inherited a ginormous, old estate in England called Rosemere. It’s complete with tenant farmers, a ruined abbey, a village, and you get the picture. Her mother inherited it as a girl (there was some provision in the ancient paperwork that females could inherit) and then abandoned it and came to the US when she was a young adult. She never told her American daughter Olivia anything about it or that it even existed. So when Mama dies at the advanced age of 62 (!) and Olivia gets the news that she’s the new Countess of Rosemere, she says WTF? and goes to see the place. Events follow blahblahblah. I’ve only just started it.
But here’s the thing: when Olivia arrives, the villagers know all about her and the family, and right off the bat, they call her “Lady Shaw.” I thought that a woman who inherits or who is a daughter of the family that inherits is called “Lady Olivia.” She would be “Lady Shaw” if she married the landed person, amirite? Or should she be “Lady Rosemere”?
In Downton Abbey, when Robert Crawley (Earl of Grantham) married Cora (Elizabeth McGovern), she became Lady Grantham (not Lady Cora). But their daughters were Lady Mary, Lady Edith, and Lady Sybil.
The only reason it bothers me is that I’ve encountered some small grammatical, usage, and other errors in the book, and they make me grind my teeth. Surely an author in this day of British TV dramas out the wazoo would have researched titles and forms of address? I’m reading it for my book club, and the other members are just as pedantic and nitpicky as I am, so this question will be of interest to them, too.
Frankly, I hope I’m wrong and that for some reason “Lady Shaw” is okay, because, as I said, I’ve only just begun (cue Karen Carpenter) and that usage (If it is incorrect) will be like being repeatedly pinched. By my nanny.
Set me straight, Dopers. Thanks.