Twenty or so years ago, hubs and I got into nasty fight and hubs threw his coffee cup at the wall next to me. He did NOT throw it at me, he threw to miss. The mug shattered and a shard cut me in the back badly enough to need stitches. I didn’t realize that constituted domestic violence back then and actually thought it was pretty funny until the police showed up at the doc-in-the-box with handcuffs for hubs.
That domestic violence charge limited a lot of his job choices and cost us a lot of money until we were able to get it expunged.
There are no one size fits all fixes for domestic violence.