Speaking as a Giants fan who doesn’t hate the Cowboys (I only have X amount of hatred in my heart, and the Eagles take up 95% of it)…
I think Wade Phillips is a decent guy, a very good defensive coordinator (he built a championship caliber defense in San Diego), and a halfway decent head coach (has anybody else gotten the Buffalo Bills to the playoffs lately?). No, he wouldn’t be anywhere near the top of my lift of great coaches, but he’s a solid football man.
Remember that Wade Phillips didn’t seek out the Cowboys’ head coaching job, and didn’t know he was being considered for it! Jerry Jones did everything backwards after the departure of Bill Parcells. He hired Jason Garrett to run the offense and Wade Phillips to run the defense, and only THEN started to look for a head coach! Naturally, no capable, desirable candidate would accept a head coaching job in which he didn’t even get to choose his own assistants, so Jerry was stuck. SOMEBODY had to be given the title of head coach, so he gave the title to Wade Phillips! I strongly suspected Jerry WANTED to give the title to Garrett, the media strongly suspected the same thing, and the players did too. EVERYONE believed Wade was just a figurehead with no real power, and that he was just holding the job until Jason Garrett got a little more seasoning.
Under the circumstances, Wade Phillips COULDN’T succeed. He COULDN’T command respect in the locker room because he wasn’t really in charge of squat, and every player knew it. A lot of fans kept saying, “Wade is too nice, he needs to crack the whip.” But even if he’d WANTED to get tough, how could he? No player would have taken him seriously, because every player knew that, if conflicts arose, he could go over Wade’s head and talk to Jerry Jones, and the jock-sniffing Jones would side with the player.
The Cowboys DO have a lot of talent (though not as much as many people assume), and the right coach COULD make them successful. But the right coach (be it Cowher or Gruden or Jim Harbaugh or whoever) won’t take a job in which he isn’t really in control of the team.
As for Wade, I hope he gets another chance to be a defensive coordinator, and that he gets to remind everyone how capable he is.