I was pulled over for speeding about 6 months ago (ftr for the first time in over 10 years), and after it was over the officer thanked me for my cooperation (although he still gave me a ticket.) I don’t know if I did it “the right way,” or anything, but for what it’s worth, here’s what happened.
After I pulled over I sat still with my hands on the steering wheel. When he came up beside me I slowly reached over and lowered the window. The officer asked to see my license and registration. I said, without moving, “officer, my license is in my back pocket, so I’m going to reach back and get it, alright?” [ftr I don’t think I said it in a smarmy way, but just in a matter of fact way.] He said “go ahead, I trust you.” I got the wallet out, and then took out the drivers license and handed it to him.
Then I said, “officer, my registration is in the glove compartment, so I’m just going to reach over and get it out, alright?” He said “alright.” I opened the glove compartment and he immediately turned his flashlight and looked in. I got out the registration and handed that to him.
He then went back to his car, and again, I sat still with my hands on the wheel. I don’t want to give the impression that I was like a deer in the headlights or anything, but I just sat there calmly.
Anyway, he came back and said something like, “sir, I have to give you a ticket because there have been several accidents on this road from people speeding, and it’s my duty to enforce the law, but I appreciate your cooperation. Have a good night.”
For what it’s worth, I thought he was sincere, and that if it were up to him, he wouldn’t have given me a ticket.