I think PE can be valuable and that it has an important place in schools.
But my personal experience with it was pretty bad.
It started off promising. I remember Ms. Austin, the PE teacher I had in the first grade. One day she showed us how to do a push-up and then gave us a few minutes to practice. I remember everyone giggling and goofing off except for me. I could see Ms. Austin wasn’t playing around, so I got to pushing. I wanted to be strong just like her. At the end of the year, I was rewarded with the Best First Grader in PE Award, and I think it was because of my excellent push-upmanship. I probably picked up some other awards that year, but that’s the only one I remember.
It was downhill from there, though. The lovely Ms. Austin was soon replaced with Horrible Ms. Beach.
Ms. Austin could see that I had an athletic heart despite being Super Klutz from Outerspace. Ms. Beach couldn’t see that at all. To her, I was lazy. I didn’t try hard enough. She would demonstrate how to do something (throw a frisbee, throw a ball, skip rope, jumping jacks, hoola-hooping, etc.) and then expect me to intuit how to do it. “See, it’s easy!” she’d say. I’m sure it was easy for her and for 99% of everyone in the class. But her lessons would never stick with me, and all the “it’s easy!” shit would just make me feel like a loser.
Kids who struggle with academic material aren’t constantly put on blast in the classroom. To be sure, there is embarrassment waiting for them if they get called to the board or to read out loud. But generally no one but them and the teacher knows when they fuck up on a homework assignment or a test. Being in the lowest reading group might be embarrassing for you, but at least you don’t have to worry about the smart kids laughing at you whenever you do your reading exercises. You do get some break from the pointing and laughing. You do get enough space away from the peanut gallery to learn.
But in PE, everything was always out in the open. Everyone knew that I would be the last one to finish running laps. Everyone knew that I would be the first to get dodge-balled in the face. Everyone would watch my flailing limbs during warm-up exercises and crack up. Even square dancing, which I actually enjoyed, was a cause of embarrassment for me. Really, the only time I didn’t feel embarrassed in PE was that day we did those push-ups in the first grade.
So I don’t have a lot of fond memories of PE. In high school, PE was the only class I skipped unapologetically (I felt sorta-kinda bad about ditching orchestra :)). It was not a source of self-esteem or achievement. I don’t think I learned anything except for maybe how to laugh at myself.
Nonetheless, I still think PE as a theoretical construct has value. I just wish it could be taught differently.
The “tough love” stuff might work with some things. Sometimes kids really are lazy and need a verbal kick in the pants to move their bodies. But I really wish someone had identified my motor skill delay early on and had flagged me for intervention instead of yelling at me. When we see kids struggling with reading, we don’t yell at them to “work harder”. We give them extra help and maybe evaluate them for specific learning disabilities so they can get more tailored instruction. Maybe if we had the same approach to PE, it would haven’t taken me 40 years to find out that I have a mild form of CP. I don’t know how that diagnosis would have changed my life, but maybe the kids wouldn’t have laughed at me so hard if they had known. Maybe Ms. Beach would have been kinder towards me. Maybe I would have had better self-esteem as a kid. Who the hell knows.