… but I definitely feel ignored. This is in general, fine. I am a nobody in this world and recognize that. But the old time board members frequently point out that they are old, that they have met other posters personally, that they specifically care about so-and-so, that they know so-and-so’s real name, that they chatted with so-and-so on facebook the other day, that they noticed so-and-so stopped posting – this absolutely causes an ingroup, and an outgroup feeling. And I know I am part of that outgroup, and I know it means literally nothing to these people if I stay. So why stay? This is not a matter to be fixed with moderation, but with board culture. The board culture is probably hard to see by those on the ingroup, but it reads as one really snarky clique. The board is actually not at all welcoming and almost actively tries to snark new people away. I have barely any reason to stay - certainly nobody wishes to be friends with me, but they’ll put up a lot of hullaballoo about who they are friends with. Politics has nothing to do with the large scale picture as many other posters bemoan, though on the ingroup you probably have a rift due to politics.
I’ll admit it. I use an ad blocker. Your ads have been malicious and I will never put up with ads like that. Your ads are absolutely keeping people away. Get better ads or figure out how to remove them. Webcomics as a whole figured out how to have good ads that I can unblock, so you can too.
Your out of date board software that is not mobile-friendly is also definitely keeping people away. I see no reason to allow image posting or avatars except through highly regulated means, as they can and will cause more moderation overhead. If those means are money subscriptions, so be it. …
Facebook is dead. People here are clamoring for a good Facebook group but literally the only thing keeping Facebook alive at all is groups. It’s teetering on the edge of disaster. People under 35 are leaving it in droves. I know, because I can watch my list dwindle. The only reason I’m still there? I really don’t know. I would never interact with a Facebook group.
A presence on Twitter is now too late. If Cecil would have posted on twitter the same way say, Neil DeGrasse Tyson does, you would’ve had brand new people signing up left and right. But now Cecil’s retired, and I can’t be sure any other ideas would be anything more than a waste of man hours. All the best accounts that people follow and spread the word about are personality or (rarely) corporate accounts that say relatable, true, outrageous, or meme-able things.
The ideas about a Youtube/Twitch/Streaming channel where people offer up their expert advice or projects sounds great in theory but in practice is near impossible. I would watch it, if it was quality enough. However, I doubt users here even have streaming hardware (a decent mic, a webcam, etc), the knowledge of how to stream, and on top of that, the knowledge of how to stream well. People think streaming requires little skill but it actually requires quite a lot of knowledge and skill to be entertaining at it. I imagine such a channel in actuality being cringe-worthy to watch.
A new board forum for posting about your pet projects or general expertise? Making a dedicated AMA forum? (The general public freakin’ LOVES AMAs) A moderated front page to pick out an interesting new topic in one of these two new boards? People might not be able to stream, but you know they can type. I might actually stick around for content like that.
In sum, you need to make the board engaging and friendly if you want new users, and then you want to make it easy for them to give you money for perks.