MAGDALENE –
The bottom line is that I don’t care what they want in my house. They are entitled to nothing within it. I would want to know as much as possible about the group to defend myself, yes, but that does not IMO include needing to comprehensively understand why they act. I need to be able to predict their actions; I largely do not care about their motivations. I have no obligation under such circumstances to examine those motivations except to the extent it will assist me in defending myself or punishing them.
With all due respect, MAGDALENE, surely you can see that these events have engendered a need in many to emphasize what is good about our country and what we can be proud of. I do not personally equate that with anyone saying we have never, in the history of the world, done anything wrong. Of course we have, but so what? It cannot justify or excuse what has now happened to us.
This is all true, but I wonder at the utility or desire to express it now. To return to the earlier analogy, to me it’s as if, in the wake of having my child killed, I run into people who say “Well, you hit people, you know. Slap 'em upside the face. Perhaps you should think about whether you should do that.” WTF?? My child is dead. Turning that death into an assertion that I need to look at what I have done wrong – it can appear to be an attempt to justify the actions of the killer of my child. Surely you can see that.
I truly don’t understand this. As if 5000 dead Americans indicates a fuck-up on our part. Really – I don’t get it.
But, you see, if you use last Tuesday’s attack as the catalyst for that disagreement, then, yes, it at least appears to be a justification for the attack. I realize completely that you are not saying any such thing, but I also hope you could see how, to the less careful reader or thinker, that might appear to be exactly what you are doing. That is why – again – I personally would be so careful NOT to link any reevaluation of policy with the attack. There should not be even a whisper of cause and effect.
No one here is advocating blindness. We are saying that justice does not require empathy with our attackers nor the assumption of one iota of blame for the attack. Certainly it helps to anticipate future attacks to know who is mad at you; I just do not agree that it is as useful or necessary to know the details of why.
What “mistakes” are you referring to? Again, if you link discussion of this horrendous attack with discussion of “mistakes” American has made in the past, you run the real risk (and I would think, the obvious risk) of coming across as an apologist for the attack. (“Yes, this terrorist attack took place, but it was in part because they are mad at us for X and Y.”) I UNDERSTAND COMPLETELY THAT THIS IS NOT WHAT YOU ARE DOING, but I’m sure you can see that the line between “explaining” and “defending” is a very, very fine one.