In this thread I wrote about how we decided to go for custody or our nephew, Eric, whose mother is a homeless, jobless, messed up drug addict.
We found out from our lawyer this past week that we have been granted temporary custody of Eric until we have a formal hearing in November. This hearing will give us “limited” guardianship of him. This means that the court is expecting the mother to basically clean herself up and fulfill certain conditions to get custody of Eric back.
We have signed him up for school and moved his stuff into our house and he is now living with us. Mrs. D has worked out a schedule where Eric will spend every other weekend at his grandmother’s house so he can spend time with his older brother and his mom.
Of course K (the messed up mom) wasn’t really happy with all this. The paperwork she received giving us temporary legal guardianship until the hearing stated she had the right to oppose the appointment of guardianship to us at the hearing and she was making noises that she might do just that. She seems to be operating under the delusion that she can just go get a job and get a place to live and she will get Eric back, and that is simply not the case. As I said in my other post, she needs to be drug free, go to a drug recovery program, find a job, get some sort of housing, and show us she is stable.
She found a job working at a local convenience store, but we honestly don’t know how long that will last since she has no car and the grandparents won’t drive her in and back from work every day. We are still trying to be careful in what we say and do around her as we don’t want to give K any reason to cause us any grief between now and the court hearing, but it is tough. Mrs D knows how to handle her and has been great with making sure K doesn’t cause us too much strife.
As far as how life at the Dragwyr household has been, it hasn’t been bad with Eric around, but we will see how it goes. We know he will need some adjustment time. There may be problems, but what will happen during that time remains to be seen. Rest assured we will be sending him to counseling after November. We know he needs that. Living all that time with a crazy woman can’t be good for anyone, especially a young kid who still doesn’t know what is considered normal behavior.
I just wanted to update everyone. I will keep you all informed as things progress.