I went to a pretty nice HS just north of Austin.
full of bullying and teasing (enough to make people suicidal and even attempt suicide): Check. I didn’t get teased too much, but that might be due to the fact that I was 5’8", usually wore a long black coat, black nails, black eyeliner, black clothes, etc (I wasn’t as freaky as it sounds, tho.). However, several of my friends were cutter/suicidal/heavily medicated.
extremely cliqueish: Ooooooooooh yes. I can think of 10 different cliques in my HS just off the top of my head.
lots of hazing: Not that I ever saw, but I wasn’t in an sports.
the vast majority of students somehow sexually active and imbibing alcoholic beverages in an irresponsible manner: Not so much in my circle of friends (we’d drink, but only occasionally, and no one ever got trashed), but on Mondays, I’d often overhear “preppy” folks talking about how they got SO Trashed Saturday night, then went to church with a hangover. Not the vast majority, tho.
with a good number of students engaging in (selling, providing, or using) illegal drugs: Yup. I had friends who would come to school high/stoned or on acid. The guy who sat in front of me did coke a few times DURING CLASS out of his backpack. It’s even worse at my sister’s school (she goes to Stoney Point HS, aka “Stoner’s Joint.”). All of her friends are stoners, her bf smokes pot, and she does on occasion (but she’s no pothead).
with lax and unconcerned faculties: I had two wonderful teachers (my Philosophy and Sociology/Psychology teachers), other than that, yeah. My grade principal (there was a main principal, then one that followed a class) got fired at my Project Graduation for being drunk.
I remember always being pissed in HS because I got my coat taken away 4 times, but their were girls with their butts and boobs hanging out of their clothing who never got spoken to. I was finally allowed to wear my coat after pointing that out. (“My clothing is distracting? I saw 5 sets of cleavage on my way here. Is that fair? No.”)
A male friend of mine almost got raped after ROTC one day, but another friend walked in and the guy ran off.
I remember a nasty fight my Senior year that resulted in bloody hand streaks on the wall and door to the men’s room.
I knew of a couple of guys who’d regularly jerk off in the bathrooms. And couples who had sex in them.
After Columbine, the campus was crawling with cops. My gf and I were walking around holding hands, and we were told that if we continued to do so, we could be arrested. WTF???!!
I have nerve damage on my left shin from being kicked with a steel-toed boot during a game of soccer. Not a common thing at all. Rare.
A gang spray-painted every mural in the art building. Destroyed them all.
A lot of teen pregnancies.
And I’m SURE there was worse going on.
An older ex-bf of mine went to HS in a bad part of . . . LA, I think (I dated him 6 years ago, I forget which city). One day when he was in class, a kid in the next aisle over pulled out a gun and shot the kid in front of him in the head.
But as for my HS experience, it really wasn’t that bad. I wasn’t traumatized or anything. I never got beaten up, I was rarely teased. The only rumor about me was that I was a lesbian, which, to be fair, wasn’t far off. But it didn’t bother me because I was known as “the hot lesbian in the trenchcoat.”
The Cody’s experiences (at a different school in the same district):
Knew of a teacher who got fired for having sex with a student.
Drugs and alcohol and cliques abound.
A LOT of bullying (he had one guy make his life hell in HS for 2 years). Wiped dog shit off his boots onto the metal rack of Cody’s desk and his backpack. Cody (Mr. Bipolar who always carries a knife) almost stabbed him for that.
Got into a fight with a kid over Now N’ Laters - punched thew kid in the head for stealing his candy and refusing to give it back.
Bloody fistfights, including between women.
Yup.
-Irish, class of `01.