{from my brother, Commander USN}
The actual dialogue coming and going is:
“Permission to come aboard sir” (enlisted)
OOD: “Granted” OR
“I report my return aboard sir” (officer)
OOD: “Very well”
and
“Permission to leave the ship sir” (enlisted)
OOD: “Granted” OR
“I have permission to leave the ship sir” (officer)
OOD: “Very well”
Of course the national ensign is not saluted if it’s not flying (e.g.
between sunset and sunrise); but the OOD is always saluted. If a senior
officer comes aboard, he is “gonged” aboard with the appropriate number of
bells (4 to 8 depending on rank), and his command. Examples:
“Theodore Roosevelt, arriving!” means
Commanding officer, USS Theodore Roosevelt has just come on board (not his own ship)
“Theodore Roosevelt, returning!”
is used aboard his own ship
“Sixth Fleet, arriving!” and “Sixth Fleet, departing!” and eight bells
were used every time VADM Pilling came aboard or departed the ship when we were in the Med
“Staff, arriving!”
was used for CAPT Connell, his chief of staff
“Captain, United States Navy, arriving!”
is used for an officer of that rank without a command… this is
commonly seen at a change of command ceremony, where the officer to be
relieved is gonged aboard as “Theodore Roosevelt” e.g., and the officer
relieving as “Captain, United States Navy”… after the ceremony of course
the titles are reversed
“Naval Operations, arriving!” for the CNO,
“Navy, arriving!” for the SecNav,
“Defense, arriving!” for the SecDef, and of course
“United States, arriving!” for the President
For any of the above, all hands on the weather decks come to attention and
salute.
Worth noting, too, that we show exactly the same respect and follow the
same protocol for officers of other services, as well asof any other nation
with which the US has diplomatic relations. When the senior Russian
admiral in the Mediterranean came aboard USS America, he was gonged aboard,
all hands saluted him, and all saluted the Russian flag as it was run up
the mast and the national anthem was played.
Probably more answer than you were looking for!
Mike