Well, Ruffian, I’m sorry you’re having troubles. 
On the subject of deliveries:
If it’s any consolation, it’s almost certainly because you live on the tag end of a route that wasn’t big enough to make up an entire route. It’s a kind of leftover piece, okay? It doesn’t have enough customers to make it worthwhile for the Post Office to assign a regular letter carrier to it, to deliver eight hours’ worth of mail every day, so its mail gets taken out by whoever’s in the office, usually Part-Time Flexibles (“grunts”
) or regular letter carriers who are on the Overtime Desired list and who just want a couple of hours of overtime at the end of the day, after they’ve finished carrying their own routes–those will be the days when your mail comes really late. The supervisor has to juggle schedules to find people to deliver your mail every day, so some days it comes early and some days it comes late.
As to “how late can it come”, union rules specify that all letter carriers must return to the office by darkness–they aren’t allowed to carry mail after dark, due to the American householder’s inclination to shoot first and ask questions later, when he hears strange footsteps on the front porch after dark. There is also the “Bicycle Factor”, which means the likelihood of letter carriers tripping over bicycles left in front yards and on front sidewalks in the dark. This all means that in the summertime, mail can come much later than in the winter. In the summer, the Better Half (who is on the Overtime Desired list) frequently doesn’t come home until 7 p.m., and sometimes not until nearly 8:00, but in the winter, I know he’ll always be home at least by 5:30.
On the subject of pickups:
You live in an apartment complex with its own mailbox? The story is somewhat the same there–every day the supervisor has to juggle schedules to find someone to drive out to your mailbox and do a pickup, and while the times posted on the box are supposed to be adhered to, still…
If it’s not a mailbox, if folks are just sticking the bills to be picked up into their own mailboxes and assuming that the letter carrier will take them with him, well, you should do them (and him) a favor and tell them to stop doing that. The letter carrier isn’t required to take those, but he usually does, because he’s a nice guy. And what he then has to do with them is what the customer should have done, which is find a mailbox and drop them in. He doesn’t normally take them back to the office with him, because there’s nowhere to put them, when he comes in through the back door at the loading dock. They have to go in a mailbox, just like all the other mail.
So there’s no way of guaranteeing that just because a bill was put out for the mailman and he took it with him, that it got postmarked that day.
I don’t even give our family bills to the Better Half to mail, because then when he gets to work, he has to walk all the way around to the front of the building and drop them in a mailbox, and it annoys him. So when I pay bills, I drop them off at what he says is one of the most reliably picked-up mailboxes, the one by the Medical Offices and the Fire Station on Main and Grand. He used to tell me, unti they removed it, “The one in the Eagle Country Food Market parking lot [which was closest to our house] is hopeless, don’t ever put bills in there…”
If you really need something postmarked “today”, do what I do (yep, even me the Post Office Wife
) and take it down to the actual Post Office and drop it in the slot, inside the Post Office building. Even those mailboxes just outside the Post Office in their parking lot are subject to late pickups, and yes, they’re even completely forgotten every so often :eek: no kidding…