Y’all (both you and seetha) have some serious misconceptions about evolution.
The Earth has been around for about 4 billion years. LIfe has been around for about 3.5 billion of those years. Think about that: 4 billion years!. I seriously doubt you can honestly comprehend just how vast that amount of time really is. Even a million years is incomprehensively vast to most people. Such timeframes are bandied about when discussing evolution, and oh it doesn’t sound like much, but even one or two million years is more than our brains can fully grasp. That, coupled with the idea thast speciation and adaptation probably occur within time frames close to a couple hundred thousand years, rather than those millions, and you see that billions, or even millions, of years are more than enough time for humans, whales, birds and manatees to evolve.
Why didn’t other apes evolve as we did? Different environments, different selective pressures, different genetic constraints. If a given mutation doesn’t occur, natural selection can’t work with it. If the genes which resulted in our bigger brains don’t occur in the other great apes, then there is nothing for nature to select, so to speak, which could produce similar results. Even at that, there are plenty of “intelligent” creatures out there, many of which may well be hindered by lack of thumbs (another constraint) or complex language. They may not be able to build skyscrapers, but then again, they don’t need to. Sharks don’t need guns or fricken’ laser beams attached to their heads because evolution has already crafted them into perfectly adequate killing & eating machines.
There is simply no way to predict how any lineage, much less our own, is going to evolve. That, and large, stable populations, such as with humans, will evolve very slowly. It’s the fringes of life where all the action occurs: areas with highly-variable environments, small populations, etc. But even then, the environment only provides the parameters; the “right” genetic variations still have to occur in order for selection to mold a given poulation in any given direction.
In other words, the OP is unanswerable.