A girl I briefly dated introduced me to Veganism by sharing with me a documentary entitled Earthlings which allegedly made her go vegan immediately. She was vegetarian for many years before that. We had to break things off a few weeks in, due to circumstantial issues and a couple minor incompatibilities which began to surface. Shortly after, I relapsed back to eating meat and having eggs for breakfast. We still continued to be friends and/or in the “it’s complicated” loop for many weeks after the fact so we were still communicating. She didn’t harshly object to my relapse, however she did assertively refute the reasons I provided, also adding that she could not see herself long-term with someone who had seen Earthlings and was still possessive of his or her meat. She subsequently denied a pending request of mine for reconciliation.
I decided to become vegan again, but in a gradual manner by starting out with Vegetarianism first. Although being vegetarian was much easier, I could not bring myself to take steps towards becoming totally vegan. Two days ago, me and the girl decided to go completely no-contact due to the tensions and confrontations that were continually arising, over the incompatibilities that had failed us while we were dating and the conflict between me wanting more closeness and her wanting more space which frustrated us both even within the context of a friendship. Illuminating was the fact that my romantic feelings for her continued to leave me emotionally unsatisfied, in addition to having fundamentally different attitudes towards the mechanics of being in a relationship.
A couple days before the decision to completely leave each other alone, which occurred after a civil, fair, and comprehensive phone conversation about the above issues, I started to eat meat again. Somewhat motivating was the fact that at this point it had been established that we absolutely had no future as a couple, although the main cause was realizing while I feel very slightly guilty deep down inside consuming these products, it’s not enough to override my lack of willpower in becoming vegan. Also, while it is possible to be healthy as a vegetarian or a vegan, if certain precautions are not taken to meet nutritional requirements, deficiencies may arise. One must remain faithful to crafting creative dishes and remembering to take any necessary supplements, which requires some level of devotion to cooking and planning. Potential for spontaneity while eating and drinking out is greatly reduced. Furthermore, I’m starting University next school year and vegetarian and especially vegan options, while present, are greatly limited and not nearly as pleasurable to the mouth. Nor is my time management and organization up to standard, which makes the prospective inconvenience even more undesirable.
Notwithstanding these unattractive conditions, now that I have been exposed to the documentary Earthlings, dated a vegan girl who provided convincing reasons for why it is unethical to not be vegan, and have read many persons’ personal anecdotes and explanations for why it is wrong to consume meat and/or animal products in general, I cannot help but feel the need for validation from some sources that it is okay to eat omnivorously and arguments supporting this position in my inventory to fall back on whenever I feel guilty and/or if I’m ever confronted over it.
Why is it ethical to consume meat and other animal products?