All sugars are carbs. All carbs are NOT sugar.
And not all carbs are created equal. Quinoa is way better than pasta, rice and cake. More whole grains (like quinoa, barley, etc., also legumes), less refined flour. If you’re borderline diabetic you might need to restrict even the “good” carbs, but in the short term, lose the cake, eat the quinoa. The higher fiber will help with weight loss (if you have more to lose), better feelings of fullness, and quite possibly the lipids.
An A1C of 6.5 is in the diabetic range, especially if it’s repeated (a single A1C in that range isn’t sufficient for a diagnosis, 2 in a row are). Interesting that your fasting glucose is only 101, as that’s barely above normal (top normal amount is 99). Try being VERY diligent about the bad carbs for a couple of months before your next blood test.
The BP is too high as well. I concur with losing a bit more weight (if appropriate), and exercising a bit more (if you can). For that, you could consider getting a FitBit or something and making a game of it to hit 10,000 (or whatever) steps a day. It may also help with the lipids readings.
I’d never heard of an anion gap test before but it looks like it points to some metabolic issues. I’d suspect that unless it continues to be out of range, you’re not likely to have major issues going on - but addressing things like your blood sugar levels will help prevent organ damage.
Apnea: I have mixed feelings about that. I had 3 separate sleep studies that said not enough apnea to treat, yet we KNEW that I stopped breathing in my sleep. Bad lab conditions. My husband got retested after he lost his weight (see below) and was “cured” but he found he didn’t feel as rested without the CPAP - so he’s using it again!!
I hear ya on unnecessary meds. My husband had blood readings over a number of years that were strongly suggestive of kidney damage. He decided to pull of some weight to reduce any stress on the kidneys. Lost 50 pounds (and has kept it off!!). Kidney readings still in the disease range. Then I spotted online that his cholesterol meds were implicated in out-of-range kidney readings (though the literature wasn’t sure if the drug caused damage, or just caused screwy readings). He took a month off the meds, and got retested. Kidney readings: normal. Lipids: just barely out of range. He started walking more - and those normalized too.
And on my own side, I had one drug mimic severe GERD symptoms and cause 4 months of misery, and another one cause my blood sugar to go from a titch higher than ideal to full-on diabetic. Needless to say I’m not on either of THOSE any more!!