I am writing a natural history book on spiders, titled Spider: from arachnophobia to obsession. Partly the title reflects my own journey, but also refelcts the contents as the book covers the natural history through the people who fear them through to those who are obsessed by them - such as the zoologists who are helping with the book. It will also include myths and legends, which often reflect, and maybe even fuel, arachnophobia.
I don’t think asking questions for research for a book breaks any SD protocols, but if it does, could the moderator please act accordingly and accept my apologies?
I am intrigued by what causes arachophpbia and would be keen to hear any theories as well as personal anecdotes. My case started as an adult - I had never liked them, but it became full blown arachnophobia through ongoing nightmares of huge spiders crossing my bed. It got to the stage I could not even touch a picture of them. When it started really disrupting my life, I started studying them to overcome what I knew was an irrational fear. I overdid the cure. I am now obessed by them.
Last week, I was wearing my spider jewellery as usual (I said I was obessed) and a teenage girl went pale and started shaking. I removed the jewellery, and asked if she could define what scares her so much. It didn’t seem to be any fear of being bitten. She could only define it as to do with them being ‘spidery’, which was a tad vague.
Could I please ask that there be NO gleeful stories about torturing or killing spiders. I am now so obssessed with them that such stories really upset me.
Lynne