I usually (but not always) get migraines in the middle of the night, after having slept for an hour or few.
The first seed of pain inserts itself into my dream so I often have to make myself wake up and take action. If I manage to become aware of it right at the start I have better chances of having a more manageable one. (But I don’t always, sometimes the pain wakes me up at a later point and I have a much rougher time).
Thing is that I awake from such a deep sleep that each cell in my body wants to SLEEP so it’s not usually easy.
The main thing with me is that when I have a migraine I cannot, repeat, cannot lie down. It makes it worse. So I go in to the living room and prop myself up with pillows and cushions. I also need to keep my back and neck straight, so I can’t really lean against the cushions, they have to be set up in a way that they support my weight without my bending my neck in the least. Unfortunately I have not found a way to do this with my new sofa & cushions, so I lightly rest against them while making sure I am sitting up straight. There have been many times when I thought that the migraine has ended so I make the mistake of just sliding down a little, you know, so I can SLEEP, only to have it flare up again. Then I start the process all over.
If I can tell it isn’t going to be a particularly bad one or if I don’t have to go to work the next day I ride it out without painkillers. I use Maxalt which sometimes works and sometimes doesn’t, and I have recently been told that Nurofen works so I have been trying that as well sometimes. As I said, I try not to because I am scared of rebound headaches and other side- effects.
I usually make a coffee and I put on the telly (I have to look away when it goes on because that sudden flare of light bothers me). I choose something that is mildly but not very interesting. I avoid things with flashes, bangs, or people shouting. Usually something like a talk show, documentary or … Nickelodeon (Drake and Josh, iCarly, Just Jordan … you get the picture). I don’t necessarily look at the TV all the time but I listen to it to pass the time.
I feel very sick, and I find that it helps to actually be sick, so if that is not forthcoming naturally, I stick my finger down my throat. My dentist has advised not to brush teeth afterwards because that ruins the enamel (I rarely did that anyway because I never know when will be the last vomiting session), but to rinse my mouth with water and let my saliva “do its job”.
I employ a type of meditation / biofeedback of my own devising (when I started doing it I had never heard of biofeedback) to make myself calmer and lower blood pressure and heart rate. A few years ago I found out that a certain blood vessel dilates and shortly after saw a documentary on biofeedback where they were training a woman (with the assistance of monitors and other equipment, which obviously I don’t have) to visualize the blood vessel back to its normal state, so I also do something similar, which helps as long as I am focused on that. If I get distracted by something the pain comes back.
This is often quite hard to do because as I said before, each and every cell in my body just wants to SLEEP, and sometimes the level of pain is such that I find it hard to achieve and maintain any level of relaxation.
Hopefully the pain will go away in time to allow me an hour or two of sleep before I have to get up for work.
The next day (I know you only asked about during the migraine, not after) I feel groggy both because of the migraine hangover and the lack of sleep. If I haven’t slept it’s even worse. I tend to keep a steady level of focused working (hoping that there are no emergencies on that day).
Before I had cats I would allow myself to sleep in a little and go to work a couple of hours late but now I am contractually obliged to serve breakfast at 08:30 (with audio reminders :rolleyes: starting between 07:30 and 08:00) so I don’t have that luxury any longer.
On some occasions, I am aware (I don’t know how) that a particular migraine is sinus related in which case I sniff pepper :eek: ! Which makes me sneeze and gets my nose runny which also helps.
All in all, my migraines never last more than a few hours I’ve never timed them, but, say, 5-6 hours max, usually a lot less, if I do the right things right at the start sometimes they don’t even get off the ground properly, so I am quite grateful because I know that other people have it much worse both pain- wise and length wise.