Inspired by a YouTube video I watched, if someone said, “I’ll be there a bit after 5”. How far after 5 would that cover? If they came at 5:20 would that be more than “a bit”. What does “a bit” in regards to time mean to you?
Personally I think “a bit” covers you for about 10 minutes. After that, you done lied.
If you know them, you’ll know whether their personal definition of “a bit” is 5 minutes or an hour. (ETA: great setup line by @scabpicker while I was typing. Thank you!)
Likewise, “I’ll be driving 4 hours and should arrive a bit after 5 pm” is different from “I’ll be leaving from 15 minutes away and should arrive a bit after 5pm”. The former inherently has much larger error bars even for a highly punctual person.
It would need to be before the next :15 increment for me to think of it as a bit. Closer to 5-10 minutes. If it’s 15 minutes past the time, tell me that time. If you’re supposed to be there at 5 but will be there after 5:15, I’d want to know 5:15, 5:30, etc. rather than “a bit later”. If you don’t know how late you’ll be, tell me something like “between 5 and 6 depending on traffic”.
Rough time is measured in quarter hours. A bit is the tolerance surrounding any given quarter hour = 15 minutes before you’re closer to the preceding or subsequent quarter hour. So an ISO bit is formally 7 minutes 30 seconds. Or 7 minutes in casual use.
Unless time was of the essence for whatever the thing is (like delivering a kidney for transplant or some such)…the older I get, the less I care. Anymore I just do my thing And if they ever show up or whatever, then cool. I’ll be at the bar at 7, I’ll say. If they choose to get there then or they show up 10 min before I leave, whatever.
It’s all relative. Around here “a bit after” generally means no more than 15 minutes. In Chicago where my sons live, “a bit after” means, “I drive the Dan Ryan/Kennedy/Eisenhower/Tri-State every day and if traffic is normal I can make it roughly at the aforementioned time, but if there’s a car breakdown on any those four highways all 9 million residents in Chicagoland will take surface streets and I’ll be there in two days.”