Hmmm, I have a conflicting story about Sting. Friend of mine is a journalist for Star TV, some MTV-type network in Asia. He interviewed Sting in a hotel with his camera crew and said he was (shockingly) one of the nicest guys he’d ever interviewed. He was playing his classical guitar when they came by, gave a great interview, and shot the bull with my mate and the camera crew well after they finished. They expected douchiness but got a pretty nice bloke.
Most of the responses here are fairly accurate. The Police were Stewart’s band - he found the members, he wrote their first songs, and they were managed by his brother. Sting was a budding talent in his own right, but if you listen to the first three albums (Outlandos, Reggatta, Zenyatta) there is significant input from all three members on the albums, from actual songs to their contributions to each other’s songs.
About the time of Ghosts (1981-1982) Sting started bringing completed demos to the band. There are some boots of these demos and everything is complete - bass, drums, vocals, guitar, keys. The songs on the album sound a lot like the final versions. Andy and Stewart started to feel like Sting’s backing band rather than a group - he was the principal songwriter and didn’t leave space for their input. He also started refusing to sing on songs that he didn’t feel that were up to snuff. (“Someone To Talk To” was a track from the Synchronicity sessions that Andy wrote, and Sting refused to sing on it - Andy felt it could have been an album track if he had.)
Stewart and Andy have given interviews stating that after Synchronicity, Sting just didn’t write songs for the band anymore. They got together in 1984 or 1985 (the sessions that produced “Don’t Stand So Close To Me '86” and the unreleased “De Do Do Do, De Da Da Da '86”) - Sting proposed reworking the old songs, Stewart broke his shoulderblade and couldn’t play, and essentially no-one was into the idea. That was the end of the band.
But it’s probably too simplistic to say they hated each other. All the members of the band worked together (but not all three) post-Police, and they even gigged at Sting’s wedding in the early 90s. As much as Sting is blamed for being the guy with the massive ego and the one that broke up the band, Stewart and Andy were world-class musicians with impressive experiences, while Sting was the hayseed from up North when the band got together.
There’s a revealing story about “I Burn For You,” which showed up on the Brimstone and Treacle soundtrack in 1982. It’s a great, atmospheric song, but Stewart and Andy thought it was too soft sounding and refused to record it, until the opportunity came up for them to put it on side 2 of a soundtrack album. It’s clear they were pretty tough customers as well.
I saw them at Fenway on the reunion tour. I thought it was a great show, and I’m not surprised that this came to pass. Sting is quite an experimenter and once he came out with the lute album I figured he might do the unexpected - for so many years reforming The Police was thought to have been an impossibility, the money was great, and Stewart’s recent movie “Everyone Stares” received very positive reviews. Stewart and Andy always said that the tragedy of the breakup is that they never did a farewell tour - and it’s clear that this is a tour, not a reformation to record new material. So I think once they’re done, there will be any number of live albums, DVDs, a proper clearing of the vaults… and that will be the end of The Police.