I was going to post this question in Wesley Clark’s thread about a sugar filter for out of control Diabetics. But no matter how hard I tried, it always seems to be end up as thread hijacking to me. So, I decided there was no alternative except to start a new thread. However, if anyone would like to comment on a sugar filter or other medical device or otherwise reference Wesley’s thread, that would certainly be OK with me.
I was first diagnosed with Type II D in 1995. At that time I weighed about 210 pounds and a friend of mine kept telling me about the importance of losing weight for my D. But the doctor I had at that time never said hardly anything about that.
I got a new doctor about ten years ago and he kept telling me about the importance of losing weight. But he was very gentle about it. He was not at all nagging. His style was just “gentle persuasion”. He just kept finding different ways to pressure me. He would say things like this, “There is nothing else you could do that would have any better effect on your D than losing weight. If you just lost a little weight, that would do you more good than any medication or any kind of D pump or other device. Nothing would be better for your health than losing weight. Even if you only lost a little weight, that would extend your life and prevent you from getting all kinds of serious health problems. Losing weight would improve your overall health more than anything else you could ever do”.
The poor guy seemed to be driven almost to the point of tears as he would tell me that he just couldn’t understand why he kept telling so many of his patients with D about the importance of losing weight, but almost none of them did. Well, he finally changed gears and tried to explain to me what the effects would be to my lifestyle. Instead of just talking in generalities, he started talking about specifics - like losing my eyesight or having my legs or other limbs amputated or what it would be like to suffer kidney failure. He asked me, "How would you like to go to the hospital every other day and spend several hours hooked up to a dialysis machine? What impact would that have on your lifestyle? Well, that did the trick. Shortly after he made that change I went from 210 pounds to 160 pounds and thank God, I have kept it off for almost one year now. I know that one year is not much time when compared to the amount of time other people have kept off their weight loss. I’m just trying to live one day at a time and keep it off.
However, I now have a new problem that is almost worse than my original problem and it seems so absurd that I just can’t find any way to tell you about it. I spend most of my time now wishing I had never lost the weight in the first place. I may be willing to tell you about it in a few days or something. It is just so stupid, you just wouldn’t believe it. But if you want to know, I’m sure that I will tell you eventually. This doctor just seemed so happy that one of his patients finally took his advice that he now seems to have gone bonkers (gone overboard). You have no idea how frustrated I feel. Fuck!
But I’d like to ask people with D, what do you think about the effect of losing weight on D and have you tried to lose it? If you have been unable to lose weight, what do you think is the reason?
How important do you think losing weight would be as compared to other factors or physical devices? Has any doctor tried to tell you about the importance of losing weight? If so, I’d just love to hear what they told you.