First off, I want to open by saying that I admire charity fundraising as a selfless thing to raise money and awareness for those less fortunate than themselves. Kudos to everyone who does these things.
But, as someone who dislikes exercise in general, I think the exercise I least of all ‘get’ is running. So that’s why it’s the topic of this thread, but it could be a broader ‘why do we want people to do something before we give them money’ kind of thing.
As the spouse of someone who loves running it truly is something alien to me. And she does these charity 10k runs regularly. She enjoys them, evidently, and there’s tons of people all around cheering runners on and saying ‘well done’.
Well done? What for? They put one foot in front of another in rapid succession for a mandated measure of space. Some did it quicker than others. That’s about it.
I dunno, it’s just not something I can see as ‘an achievement’.
Yes, I know it’s healthy. I’m sure these people get a personal buzz from it. And I’m sure it means they get out of the house and explore new parts of their town. All fair reasons.
I guess, as a spectator, I just can’t get into the feeling that it’s something worth remarking about as something to appreciate.
I mean, I’ve done charity fundraisers myself, actually. Last year I did a 26-mile hike across Hadrian’s Wall over ten hours. Utterly shattered. At the end, I was given a medal and people telling me I must be so proud. I couldn’t have been more miserable actually, and just wanted to sit down and not do anything for a long, long time. I didn’t feel like an achiever. I felt awful. My walking hadn’t achieved anything, and here I was, a pile of agony.
I dunno what type of answer I’m expecting, or even what type of question I’m trying to ask, really, but while I appreciate people tend not to want to give something for nothing even when it comes to charity, why is it running or walking that is the go-to? And why does it work in making people give money? Most aren’t even present when the fundraiser does the run. What matters it to them if the runner ended up, on the day, staying at home watching TV, but then sent the raised money to the charity regardless?
I guess it’s the absence of a produce ‘good’ at the end of the process that I can’t grasp. There must be better, more interesting, more material means of fundraising.
Am I making sense as to what’s going through my mind?