Starting with the last sentence first:
A 2 on your scale of 10 is clearly enough justification for you to make a comment about it. Which is fine.
But when you make a comment about something, it will tend to prompt a response. You get that, right? Saying it was “maybe 2” doesn’t change the fact that you brought it up, and the fact you brought it up means you probably think it warrants response. So it will get a response. Not bringing up a 2 is the way to guarantee no one discusses an issue as trifling as a 2.
Point being: If you start sneezing when a cat walks in front of you, I’m going to give you a tissue. If you say you’re just a lil’ allergic, I’m still going to give you a tissue.
Okay?
I see that comment clearly embedded in a context where she has offered other evidence. Maybe I’m misreading that, but I’m fine with misreading that. See below.
Of course it could.
That would potentially be a really important thing if I’d offered some detailed analysis of the situation here. But I haven’t.
What I said was simple and true: anecdotes are often worse than no data at all. I stand completely by that comment. It remains true for all the reasons I laid out. It applies generally. It applies to Manda JO and it applies to you and it applies to me. And most important for me staying on topic in the thread, it applies to the post I was responding to. Now it’s completely possible that I glossed over her posts because she gave me a compliment so long ago I can’t even remember exactly when it was. I had to look it up: October 2012 was when we discussed loanable funds. That’s just a few posts in a single thread, and I think that was our largest interaction ever. I’m not sure we’ve talked about anything at all since. I’m willing to accept the possibility that under my ruggedly handsome exterior I have an ego so shallow that I’m springing to someone’s defense because, shucks, she done said somethin nice to me two years ago. kicks dirt Maybe I really am like that.
But all I said was something true that applied generally. Yes, I only hit the quote button once. Yes, I responded to the person I don’t know instead of the person with over 8,000 posts who’s been here since 1999. Yes, if I had really really been straining at my monitor I could’ve found a different place to push the quote button.
But who cares? Seriously? It was relevant in that context, so I posted it.
I don’t use smileys often. I threw it in up there because I was like, hey, this is no big deal. Ain’t no thing. But I see that my response triggered another response. I went and registered at least a 2 again on your personal Richter scale, and anything above a 2 brings out the sniffles. So in order to head off your very logical criticisms – and they are logical, I’m not denying that – I’m responding again. Why did I post? I’ve got a swirling mass of nonsense in my head in various stages of incoherence. The inchoate stirrings of a primitive idea eventually start to take form and solidify. Eventually, they’ve attained enough shape that I might want to talk about them. And then, reading a post might prompt them to dance down the nerves from my brain to my fingers where they find some semblance of real existence on the screen.
And that is what happened. It’s all that happened. I saw a chance to make an on-topic comment on a general thing I’d been thinking about, and I took it. For reasons I still don’t quite understand, there was some resonance from you. The dirt shifted a bit underground. But if it had pegged a 1.5 instead of a 2.0 and you had ignored it, then that would’ve been my only post in this thread. There was no “analysis of the situation”. I had a chance to say a true thing that had been floating in my head, which was fully relevant in context, and I took it. (And actually, I think I’m stealing this one from somebody else on the SDMB, but I don’t know who. I’ve searched and turned up empty. But still, it doesn’t feel like it’s “mine”.)
I threw a smiley at you to let you know it was no big deal, but then you jumped back with OMGBIAS. (That is an exaggeration for humorous effect. I don’t need to know how serious the suggestion was. No scale is necessary.) So now I am explaining more clearly, and as literally as I can manage within the lolcat jokes, so that there are no further misunderstandings.
I hope you understand now how this is a bit silly.
There was no analysis. There was merely one true statement, backed up with several reasons why it was true, in a context where it was appropriate. Maybe not the only context where it was appropriate, but at least one obvious place where it was.
This isn’t a game of football. We’re not wearing jerseys. When I point out to one person that we’re usually much better off using studies than anecdotes, that does not mean I think we should suddenly ignore what I said for another person. I guess it’s possible that I hit quote for one poster and not the other out of some sort of bias, but since my comment isn’t about any specific argument in this thread, the bias is utterly irrelevant. I’m highly sympathetic to the idea that people should work hard for whatever they do, should stretch themselves, and of course there’s no way for me to divorce myself from my sympathies so completely that I become perfectly impartial. That’s life.
If something is true, don’t worry if it’s on the wrong shelf. Just make your own case, and forget the 2s.