I don’t look exactly like either of my parents (tall and fair like dad, fat like mom) but I look a LOT like my cousin on my mom’s side. There’s a photo of him when he was a young teen, and I’m sitting on his lap as a toddler, and most of my friends have assumed it’s a photo of me with one of my nieces. Oddly enough he’s male and I’m female - he probably looks a little feminine and I look a little masculine.
My brother doesn’t look one bit like me but he is the spitting image of the grandfather that we share with the aforementioned cousin. Our grandparents’ wedding photo looks like a photo of my mom and my brother.
Also, I have some pretty crazy hair, and my dad has this same crazy hair as does his brother. It’s pretty unique.
Put it all together and I’m convinced I belong with these people.