Hey Mother-in-law–go fuck yourself. (orginal, amirite?)
Last fall MIL moves to Mexico to retire. Calls us up randomly to come help her pack/move every now and then. We gamely drive across the state on a day’s notice more than once, over 9 hours in the car over two days each time. I tell myself “Don’t bitch about this, you are living the dream. How many people actually get to pack their MIL off to Mexico?” Finally she goes and I think I’m done driving to fucking Western Iowa and its flat expanse of shitty depressed tiny towns and fuck all.
Ha ha, I was so wrong. Turns out she had ordered two Amish style electric heaters before she went so she could take them along. (Yes, she bought giant heaters to take to Mexico. Go ahead, wrap your brain around that one.) Due to a shipping mixup (read she fucked up the order) the heaters didn’t get delivered until she was already south of the border. In December she calls my husband up to say “Surprise! I am giving you and your brother in Georgia (another arctic environ in desperate need of auxiliary heat) heaters for Christmas! All you have to do is drive over to your grandma’s house (in BFE Western Iowa), mail the one to your brother and take the other one home!”
This is not a Christmas present. This is a fucking chore. Not only will we have to give up an entire fucking weekend driving across state to get this “free” heater, we will have to spend at least $60 in gas and $50 on a hotel room and then whatever stupid amount shipping it to his brother. (I’m sure we’ll see that reimbursement check right away.)
December and January go by with shitty weather nearly every weekend. Birdman and I do actually make plans a couple times to make the trip but we keep getting interrupted by freezing rain, the occasional miscarriage, etc. Then in February Birdman has parts in two plays back to back and in March we have plans most weekends, including my 30th birthday party belated from February. Also, I got knocked up right away again in January so I felt like shit until about two weeks ago, not to mention taking long car trips as a pregnant lady is not recommended.
So last week Birdman tells me his mom is furious that we haven’t gone to pick up the heaters yet. We don’t have anything going on this weekend, so I agree to go. He lets MIL know we are going and her response is “Oh good. I’ll be back in town for a couple weeks too because I need to get my taxes done.”
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Bitch did you just say you’re going to be in the state? You do realize that Birdman and I have lives and jobs and limited funds, right? That just taking the weekend off to drive across state is kind of a big deal right now? And now you tell us you are going to be in town anyway and could just fucking mail us the heater for a hell of a lot less $$$ than us driving over there and getting it ourselves? Or, since Birdman actually does want to see you, you could take your fucking rental car with unlimited fucking miles and fucking drive the heater here and hang out with your kid for more than the hour or two we will have to spare while we are there?
Jesus Christ you cunt. You keep trying to act like you are being nice and are this sweet old lady and Birdman believes it and won’t ever tell you no but just fuck the hell off back to Mexico. I’d like to see you try this shit in a few months when we have an infant to cart around. I’ll let Birdman bow to your every whim now, but you can just get fucked if you think we’re going to be carting an infant across the state because you can’t think of someone other than yourself.
Fuck off fuck off fuck off fuck off.
Oh and Mom and Dad? When I bitch to you about MIL it really doesn’t help at all for you to say “Oh, she’s such a nice lady and she really does love you guys and you could really have it a lot worse…” Either sympathize with me or tell me to bitch somewhere else. I know I could have it worse but I could have it a whole hell of a lot better too.