There is another thread in this forum that asks the question:
“Is sex with an attractive person better than with an unattractive person”?
I think a more interesting and possibly more useful thread could be:
“What qualities make for the best lover”?
The greatest lover I have ever had was not at all particularly attractive. But she kept things going very slowly. Slowly … Slowly … Slowly …
Right up to the moment before orgasm. Then, the orgasm came with all the power of at least double or triple a normal orgasm.
I never experienced anything like that before or since.
How about you?