I can really only speak upon Scotch Whisky. My wife used to work for Allied Distillers before they were taken over and broken up and we have many friends who still work in the whisky industry, including several brand ambassadors. She introduced me to the Scotch Malt Whisky Society (SMWS), a private bottlers who specialize in single cask (so one step beyond single malt) whisky, bottled at cask strength.
Recommendation are obviously an individual taste. Your current two top picks are actually very different; a Scotch Speyside single malt whisky and an Irish triple distilled grain whiskey. Both share characteristics of relative sweetness and smoothness but otherwise the styles and tastes are quite different.
Blended Scotch is fine, especially if you are going to put anything in it other than a little water. If you insist on putting ice in your whisky then don’t spend the money on more than a qood blended Scotch. A decent rule is the higher percentage of malt whisky versus grain whisky then the better the blend is likely to be. The malt content in blends start at 10%. Johnnie Walker Red Label contains ~15%; Johnnie Walker Black Label has ~35%. Chivas Regal has ~50% malt content. One of the blends with the biggest malt part in it is Bushmills 1608 (~80% malts) which may be worth noting if you like Irish Whiskey.
The SMWS have recently introduced defining their products by “style” which is interesting, but understandable when selling single casks which may differ substantially from one another even when the same age from the same distillery. The art of the blender to maintain the “house taste” of a single malt should not be underestimated - it still needs quite a bit of blending between casks of that distillery none of which can be younger than the age printed on the bottle, but many can be much older.
The SMWS styles are currently:
Young & Sprightly: e.g. Clynelish’s and Dalmore’s up to 10 years old
Sweet, Fruity & Mellow: e.g. Isle of Aran 14 y.o.
Spicy & Sweet: e.g Linkwood 23 y.o, Glen Grant 25 y.o.
Deep, Rich & Dried Fruits: Bladnoch 23 y.o.
Old & Dignified: Glenfarclas 24 y.o. and Teaminich 30 y.o.
Lightly Peated: Laphroig 17 y.o, Bowmore 24 y.o or a Bunnahabhain 16 y.o.
Peated: Caol Ila 24 y.o. and older Laphroig’s
Interesting and helpful to those new to the world of single malts perhaps, but yet to take hold beyond the SMWS. This is where to go to really tell the impact of a bourbon cask from a sherry casked Scotch - many single malts blend the two.
The classic Scotch malt classification however remains by region (example picked from the standard blended 12 y.o malts you will find in airport Duty Free):
Lowland: Auchentoshan (smooth triple distilled sherry casked) to Glenkinchie (pale, delicate, sweet pre-dinner malt)
Highland: Very varied bunch but often on the dry side, Old Pulteney perhaps the best known.
**Speyside **(largest area - often sub-divided) Again very varied but very high quality. Home to many of the greatest names in Scotch whisky, such as Glenfiddich, Glenfarclas, Glen Grant, The Glenlivet and The Macallan. The nearer the coast the distillery the more the sea air impacts the style perhaps.
Islands: from Aran, thru Jura, Tobermory and Talisker (Skye) up to Highland Park and Scapa they get more assertive as you head north. Often powerful after dinner malts.
Islay: assertive from medicinal (Laphroig) thru heavily peated (Bowmore) to lightly peated (Bunnahabhain)
Campbeltown: big, heavy, slightly peaty malts. Some detect stinking fish and seaweed notes. Springbank is the best introduction to this distinctive style.
Personally I drink quite a lot of Highland Park (16 y.o) and 12 y.o Bunnahabhain (the lightest of the peated malts) and Glenlivet, and move up to 24 y.o+ Glenfarclas’s when I can afford it.
Hope helpful!