I used to flip thru a big ol’ dictionary looking for interesting words. Unfortunately, I’ve forgotten most of the ones I found because neither I nor most other people use them.
One that I do remember and really like is persiflage - noun: light and slightly contemptuous mockery or banter
It’s a bit classier than snark.
Are there any words you’d like to hear more often?
I got to use the word “cachinnation” in conversation just the other day. I have a neighbor who has a very loud laugh! Quite possibly the first time I have ever actually uttered that word.
I figured someone would pick some ordinary niceties… I don’t consider any of them to be particularly interesting words, altho they are far too scarce in everyday life.
I rather like callipygian, and I was quite surprised to hear it in the lyrics of a Limeliters song.
Foreigners who don’t know the language well find “diarrhea” a very mellifluous word, but I can’t say that it is underused.
For myself, I think “borborygmus” could be put to wider use, at least in apologies. “I hope you will forgive my borborygmus, Lady Catherine, I’m afraid my collywobbles have developed a life of their own.”
Where have you been for the last several years? It’s incredibly common to use “gender.” A Google news search turns up 14.9 million results. Searching “sex” mainly turns up results related to the act in various ways–sex workers, sex education, etc.