Once a species becomes interstellar and starts to spread out, conflict may be inevitable. A species that is static, or doesn’t expand to fill any ecological niche it occupies is probably never going to bother with interstellar travel or colonization in the first place. A species already disposed to expand is going to, well, expand…and most likely if other species are in it’s path to expand then conflict will arise. Even our own species is like that…look at how our species has expanded to fill nearly every ecological niche on the planet. Eventually we’ll start to feel constrained and will either turn on ourselves or turn outward to the solar system (at least).
A species similar to us but with more advanced technology that actually has the option of moving at interstellar distances is going to expand to fill all that space out there. I remember reading somewhere that if a species could move at interstellar speeds that it could potentially fill the gallaxy in a fairly short (by cosmic scales) time frame…I don’t remember if it was 10,000, 100,000 or a million years, but something like that.
-XT