I’ve been meaning to start this thread for a long time: it seems to me to be the unanswered question in the whole religion versus atheism debate. I don’t honestly expect to get the question put to rest here. I expect to see a lot of the same attacks I have seen a hundred or so times before. Maybe we’ll get lucky, though. I think this question deserves better and clearer and snappier writing than I’m going to give it, but here’s my shot.
For the purposes of this question, there are no deities – or, if there is/are, he/she/they/it does/do not care about what humanity believes or does. We are the ant farm, with or without someone to drop seeds in now and again. Let’s also assume religion is the belief in some sort of higher power, though there is certainly a place in this question for religion-like followings like Naziism.
Let’s talk, instead, about religion and why it is (or isn’t) useful. My hypothesis is simply that religion is natural to human development and built into human psychology. It is no more or less universal than love, violence, maternal instincts, or jealousy – it is just as basic as these, but any individual human may exhibit or even control in themselves any or all of these to greater or lesser extents.
Just as those traits, however, I think religion is almost as important as humanity’s inquisitive nature in molding human culture. I think it is important as a starting point and, as it develops, as a series of guidelines for civilized behavior. This is not to exclude violence and hatred, of course: they are as civilized as charity and probably more prevalent. I think it can be used for good and for bad, for love and intolerance.
It is unfortunately true that religion has some very bad sides. It also seems true that these bad traits spring from its good ones: for example, though a religion might preach repsonsibility for one’s community, thereby bringing one’s fellow religious under one umbrella, the Them outside the Us are almost inevitably a source of some level of disdain, whether at the level of ‘Poor misguided fools’ or ‘Kill the heathens!’ They seem as inextricably wound up in religion as they are in human nature.
But that’s my point and my question: would we really be better off without religion? More importantly, what would replace it, both now and in the past? Would an explanation of the scientific method work for early Man? It might explain where his fire comes from, but it might not explain why he should not kill his neighbor and steal his wife. “Because it’s the wrong thing to do” and “Because you’ll regret it” don’t even work on modern enlightened adults most of the time. What can we use to replace religion – again, both today and in the past – that would work better for morality, for art, for culture, for civilization?
For my own background: I grew up Lutheran until my mother realized nobody was forcing her to church anymore. She still believed in a higher order, so she and I dabbled in Wicca for a while. I went to Catholic school for a year and was the darling of the priests (why no, I never told them; they knew I was not Catholic but they might have been a little surprised to learn I was not a Lutheran). I went to high school and college and still self-identified as pagan until it wore away into agnosticism, to secular humanism, to a series of mind-blowing epiphanies that sent me scrambling for a religion. I chose to join the Episcopalians for, to be honest, traditional and aesthetic reasons, though a part of me found (and still finds) both Buddhism and Islam very appealing – naturally, for very different reasons.
And one little anecdote: I was having dinner with two dear, dear friends who happen to be Catholic. We were discussing religion’s place in our lives, it being one subject we can be civil about at the table. I will remember my friend’s eyes and the tension in his voice when he explained to me: “I need God. I need religion. I need to believe there is some final judgment at the end. If I didn’t believe in Heaven and Hell, I’d do whatever I wanted – lie, cheat, steal, kill, all to get what I wanted in the world if I figured I could get away from it. I could get away from people, but I couldn’t get away from God. I don’t know what I’d do without my beliefs.” You might agree this is a very sad state of affairs, but what would you do for people at this stage of development if religious thought never entered their lives?