Qadgop, I’ve not been to Shelter Cove myself, but a good female friend (whose opinion I trust) dated a guy who had a house there, and she was very unimpressed. It’s certainly remote, but according to her it’s more “gated community” remote than “quaint fishing village that time forgot” remote. She met lawyers and doctors from San Francisco, not one-legged Sea Captains going “Aaaargh, matey”. (I understand that you may not be looking for either of those, but you have to admit that the latter are more interesting than the former). She also said that the restaurants and cafes had the pretensions of Bay Area establishments with none of the quality, and had no “local” flavor whatsoever. Overall, she was rather disgusted by the place.
To put things in perspective, I’ve spent many a happy day in Arcata, Eureka, Fort Bragg, and Mendocino. You can easily drive from any of those places to some pretty wild countryside and ocean scenery. However, no-one is going to claim that any of them are “miles away from civilization”.
Here is the California Coastal Records Project image of the Shelter Cove Airport. You can scroll the images all the way up the coast to Oregon or down to Mexico, so if you have patience you should get a pretty good idea of what the Lost Coast has to offer (I consider the CCRP one of the most fascinating projects on the Web, even though Barbra Streisand disagrees).
Speaking purely personally, if I were traveling from Wisconsin and wanted remote Pacific coastline I’d avoid California entirely, and go straight to British Columbia or Alaska (or perhaps Washington, with Oregon bringing up the rear).
I’m somewhat curious about the seaplanes that previous posters have mentioned. Where on earth do they land? There’s no sheltered inlet, lagoon, estuary, lake, etc… just the Pacific Ocean, which is rather wild and rocky at that point. Plus, of course, the landing strip in the photo to which I linked, but that’s a litttle rough for seaplanes unless they’re dual-purpose.
If you’re counting votes, this Northern California resident would vote thumbs down on Shelter Cove.