A drivetrain that permits locking all of (a) left front and right front, (b) left rear and right rear, and (c) front and back, will not get stuck on an icy patch as easily as one that does not have full lockability, for the nature of a non-locking differential is to provide power to the slipping tire at the expense of providing power to the non-slipping tire, meaning that the more gas you give 'er, the more the slipping tire will slip while the non-slipping tire sits there picking its nose waiting to be given some power.
What’s out there that has front locking differentials, rear locking differentials and central (front to back) locking transfer case? Not much. For example, the Jeep Wrangler Rubicon does, but the other Jeep Wrangler models usually do not. The down side of having front and back differentials locked up is that it impedes turning. For example, if you are turning to the left, your right tire must travel more distance than your left tire, so having them both rotate at the same rate is not optimal. If you are on ice or snow or sand, the tire slippage wil negate this problem, but if you are making tight turns on summer pavement or warm rock, forcing wheels travelling different distances to rotate at the same speed will be hard on the differentials. Think of fully locking four wheel drive as the Tank Girl of the automobile world. Ain’t nothin’ gonna stop her, but she’s rough around the edges.
In contrast to lockers, all-wheel drive vehicles use different types of computer-magic spells to control power to all four wheels. Some all-wheel drive systems are better than others. Subaru’s system is the one that will always get power to the wheel that needs it, primarily due to it’s all-wheel drive system being symmetrical rather than asymetrical.
Both the Jeep Wrangler Rubicon and Subaru all-wheel drive can get the vehicle moving when only one wheel has traction. Once you get going, inertia is a bitch for winter driving, so remember that regardless of drive-train and with identical tires, it will take longe for the heavier Rubicon to stop than the lighter Outback, and it will be more difficult to control a skidding Rubicon than and lighter Outback. Take your pick between a gas guzzing holy-shit-le-merde unstoppable tank, or a nimble, more fuel efficient car that can handle ice but will end up floating earlier with no wheels making contact when the snow gets deep, if it hasn’t already lost its guts all over the trail due to lack of ground clearance. For trail and off-road driving in crappy winter conditions, go with the Jeep Wrangler Rubicon. For on-road or dirt road driving in crappy winter conditions, go with the Subaru Outback.
Note that although locking diffs or all-wheel drive make all the difference in getting going on ice, neither makes much if any difference in controlling the vehicle’s lateral movement, for control of the power going to a wheel is meaningless unless the tire can grip the road. That’s where having the right tire for the particular conditions comes in.
A soft and siped/groved ice tire (e.g. Nokian Hakkapeliitta or Bridgestone Blizzak) will provide grip on ice that a harder and/or less siped/grooved tire will provide https://www.tirerack.com/tires/tests/videoDisplay.jsp?ttid=116. Bonus points if your jurisdiction will permit studded winter tires like the Zamboni uses while the Habs and Leafs are taking a break.
Tire grip makes a great difference both for getting going and also for controlling the vehicle’s lateral movement. Better control of the vehicle’s lateral movement is why rear wheel drive vehicles should be fitted with snow tires on all four wheels rather than just the rear wheels.
Remember that even although winter tires will give you a great deal more lateral control (turning and skidding) on ice than summer tires, that extra control will not be as great as the improvement in non-lateral control (straight-line accelerating and breaking), so just because you can start and stop better with winter tires does not mean that you will be able to corner equally as well. You won’t. Don’t let the extra grip of winter tires fool you into believing that they will corner the way summer tires corner in summer, for although winter tires are remarkable, they are not God.
The long and short of it is that for ice driving, either locking differentials or all-wheel drive give you usable power even when up to three of the wheels are not getting traction, and winter/ice tires give you far more traction. The right combination of powertrain and tires can take the stress out of winter driving. Yes, you must take greater care when winter driving, but with due deference to the conditions, it has neither the white-knucle nonsense or frequent stucks suffered by folks who drive on snow or ice with two wheel drive and/or summer tires.