One of the problems I have with the way that we go about combatting hate is that how harsh we are in combatting it is directly proportional to how few people hold a particular hateful view. For example, since outright white supremacists are a pretty small group, we come down on them like a ton of bricks. But if it’s a large group, or perhaps even a majority, well then we tread a little more lightly, use more reasoned debate tactics.
Take the gay rights movement. Up until the 1990s, it was legal in most places to discriminate against gays in any situation, from jobs to housing to whatever. Gay marriage wasn’t even on the radar. There were no hate crimes protections. Even most people who didn’t actively hate gays were likely to hold beliefs that it was “unnatural” or generally icky. Gays in the military? No way. Robert Byrd thundered from the floor of the Senate, “Homosexuality is an abomination!” Some people just learn more slowly than others I guess.
Now obviously, in a climate like that boycotts, outing haters, trying to get people fired, condemning people as bigots, is counterproductive. So activists tend to avoid confronting all but the worst examples, while using the incredibly innovative tactic of reasoned debate to convince everyone else.
But then, what happens when we reach a critical mass of acceptance? Well, for those who are a little slower, the knives come out. I saw this tipping point around the time Obama endorsed gay marriage. Being against gay marriage went from a socially acceptable form of bigotry to a pretty dangerous thing to say out loud, or even support privately(see: Mozilla’s CEO getting fired for supporting Prop 8).
So, is this a productive way to evolve on civil rights? Personally, I think there are many problems with switching tactics once the good side wins. One of them is simple cowardice: lay low and speak softly in the minority, stamp out disagreement when in the majority? On the other hand, once a societal consensus has been reached, it does seem to me that this is not a debate that should be continually reopened. We’ve definitely reached that point on the basic aspects of race relations. I’m not sure what debate I could have with a white supremacist. Actually, I do know, because I’ve talked to some: they are batshit crazy and don’t listen to reason. But people who still have problems with gays, it’s not always like that. Some are coming from a place of pure hate and can never be moved, but others are still just under some misconceptions. Currently. a TON of us are still under some misconceptions about the trans community, and my own ignorance about the trans community is still a mile wide. I’m sure the questions I ask can sound offensive, but I really do want to understand before I decide for sure what I think.
I think a second issue is forcing hate into the shadows. You know, it’s funny, about half of African-Americans I talk to prefer the hate to be out in the open, whereas most whites seem to want it swept under the rug. My own position, maybe informed by my Jewishness, is that I also prefer Nazis to be out and proud. Not so I know who they are(which sounds vaguely sinister, I don’t want to hurt these people), but so I know how many there are and how much sympathy there is for them. I know a lot more people sympathize with them than feel safe admitting it. But why shouldn’t they feel safe? Does making them feel unsafe make them less likely to sympathize?
So I propose for debate that the correct way to confront hate is to not change our tactics too much from when we were originally fighting it. Peaceful counterprotests, work through the system, engage those who disagree in good faith, and condemn hatred, while not seeking extraordinary punishment simply for having those beliefs and expressing them. Of course, those of us who aren’t consciously racist are the vast majority so in some ways we should use our majority power to try to change behavior. But I don’t think we should cross the line into intimidation, which was their tactic when they were in the majority.