From the other thread:
How about meta-joke? The punchline of the original joke could be anything. "Funny, you don’t look gay / Canadian / like a lawyer / doctor / cop / sick.
It’s a standard joke about ignorance and misconceptions which is probably as old as language. Of course the Jewish community would be familiar with “you don’t look Jewish” but the meta part is when two Jews do it. Plus Jews are funny.
The other version with the woman pestering the guy until he says “fine, I’m Jewish” is meta I think because some people are so ignorant they’ll go out of their way to be ignorant even when it doesn’t make sense.
Just my guess.