I suppose that means that I “win” this thread! Ha!
Monty Python references for me.
I’ll be in my bunk…
Vagina.
And redheads. So redheads with a vagina.
From this one we get:
Something, such as an object or a nonsexual part of the body, that arouses sexual desire and may become necessary for sexual gratification.
An abnormally obsessive preoccupation or attachment.
…or:
any object, activity, etc, to which one is excessively or irrationally devoted: to make a fetish of cleanliness
…or:
Psychology . any object or nongenital part of the body that causes a habitual erotic response or fixation.
True in many cases, but one would not have a problem discussing an attraction to people with red hair with her.
The bit about the attribute or object being “necessary for sexual gratification” is what I mean. We really need to define what is a “fetish” versus a “turn-on”. The average person is not going to be surprised if you tell him or her that you are attracted to blondes. But they might be if you express the same attraction to vinyl car seats.
Mini skirts, blackstockings with what we call suspenders (But not what you call supenders which we call braces), French Maid uniforms, school girl uniforms, halter neck tops, white dresses, basques, Cheong Sangs and lesbians.
And I think thats it.
I’m aroused by her arousal. So most things that get her going get me going.
If FMF 3somes get her going, even better.
Until you meet a woman who’s aroused by your arousal. Then it’s yet *another *night staring at each other expectantly…
I have a turn on no women seems to get, is very simple, and yet many get offended at the thought of it.
I love a woman in an oversize t-shirt…I love the way that it looks, feels, moves…
I’ll just be back here
Turn ons are very natural and plain girls. Little to no make up, hair in a pony tail, wearing a t-shirt and jeans and that’s about it. Also really tall (5’10 or taller) or really short (5’2 or so) girls. Thin and athletic too, I’ve just never been into bigger girls
Fetish: Feet, especially socks. I know it’s a relatively “normal” fetish, but I’m still embarassed as hell about it to girls. Girls in ankle socks just drive me nuts, also playing with the feet as well is hot to me. Although strangely enough I’m pretty picky about the feet too, if they’re nice I go insane, if not then I’m fine with ignoring them
Had a girl who was perfectly fine with the fetish and had PERFECT feet. I will never live down the fact she left me 
Per my online dating profiles:
I’m attracted to tiny, dark-haired Caucasian women with pretty little feet!
As to what my fetishes are: During our initial “sex talk” I let a prospective partner know that I’m attracted to the body parts that most men pay no attention to. I tell them, “I’m not an ass man, or breast man. I LOVE small, pretty female feet; little hands; straight, white teeth; and straight dark hair.” I’m also very much into bondage, spanking, and gagging as well as watching my ladies fuck other men, as well as photographing/video taping the fun. :eek: Is that a fetish? If so, I’ve had the privilege of indulging in it several times with several friends and several different women at different times in my life.
Have I said too much here?
Same here, Sir. That girl would’ve been my 2nd ex-wife. (I was with the 1st wife for 8 years but was too ashamed to tell her I loved her feet) The 2nd ex was the first woman with whom I was COMPLETELY open about my foot fetish, as well as my other kinks, and she accepted it ALL! (That is, until she went ‘back to her roots’ and cheated on me with her lesbian co-worker.)
It seems that although I’d told her everything about MY kinks, she’d hidden that one from me until just before she filed for divorce. :mad:
Show some respect, go to your bunk! ![]()
High contrast.
Flaming redheads with milk skin or gothy raven-haired women with the same. Pixie cuts, or really long hair, shaved heads on women too. Women who let their bush grow long but keep everything shaped and off the legs can be pretty enticing. If you are going to be a fake color, then be a bright saturated one. Otherwise I find natural best. Real platinum blonde? yum. Fake bottle blonde? Pass. You were better as a brunette. Intelligence is a huge turn on.
I’ll actually disagree with you on this one only because I’m a fan of bigger feet and long toes.
And I’m sorry to hear about your story down there ![]()
Jesus…good post! Even though I posted in this thread already, can I go with a +1?
Ankle socks :o
I can’t decide if there’s an implied “… and nothing else” here.
Omorashi yagai
What?
What reputation? 
It is no wonder Frau Blucher is your woman (horses neigh in the distance)
Turn on - Healthy Hair, and Eyes. Hair color preference would be the darker the better. That includes a dark red. Size of woman doesnt matter to me. I dont mind overweight, if there is a femine shape. That being said, I prefer short petite (B cups). Asian, Hispanic, or women of light brownish color
Out of the ordinary wise I would have to say voyeurism. I like to watch women who dont realize theyre being watched. Unfortunately, that goes against my moral standards (Im not a peeping Tom, or Fred, John or any other name). Maybe it is that dichotomy that makes it arousing.
Something about a woman alone,with herself, unbound by the constraints of the feeling that she has to “perform”. Just a fly on the wall
An attractive man with good hair becomes instantly turn-my-head-and-give-a-look-over more attractive to me if he lets that hair grow to shoulder lengtht. Add in a largish nose and bam! I’m sold.
And here’s one I hate to admit: I love it if a guy appears genuinely is in a bit of emotional pain because of his love for a woman. I’m a vampire for that kind of emotion. Love, or the capacity for love, is never more genuine and attractive to me then when it is expressed in the pain over losing it.
This videoclip, for instance, Gotye “Somebody that I used to know” has most of what I like: an attractive guy, nice body, shoulder length hair, (okay, nose nothing special) and he acts very well that he hurts over losing his ex as a friend.