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Mangetout, I know that you are just trying to be slightly funny with that, but re-read the thread sans your bias. The op was his presentation of his unsolicited butting into a female coworkers decision regarding a circ decision for her son made primarily on religious/cultural grounds and arguing with her, heatedly, about it. He, by his own admission, has no interest in knowing the history of why circs are so commonly performed in this country and has no interest in understanding why this may be a traditiion of so much significance to Jews that even a secular non-conformist like his co-worker respects it. It is just barbaric and should not be done. Period.
In short, it is none of his effing business.
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Ok, my turn to rebut your characterization of my position.
I probably haven’t been totally consistent in this thread, but yes, I am primarily interested in why it’s so commonly performed given the irrefutable facts that it’s not beneficial in any measurable way, is extremely painful, and very likely has a detrimental effect on function, however small; and, most importantly, the fact that it is a violation of the baby’s right to control his own body (a right which, except for medical necessity, is one of the most deeply-respected rights in this society; it’s precisely why sexualizing children is viewed so severely).
What I cannot abide is any defense that takes the form ‘it’s what we do and it’s none of your business’. There are plenty of cultural/historical practices that are prohibited or at least highly frowned upon in this society. Given the facts I cite above, it’s just bizarre to me that circumcision is such a glaring exception.
And it’s true that I don’t really give a crap what justification Judiasm provides for it. I have no interest in arguments that aren’t based on facts or logical principles. That your ancestors and family members believe the same as you, or that a set of scripture supports the practice, has no bearing on the argument. Either explain why it’s ok in light of the strong logical and factual arguments against it, or find some way to deal with my disapproval and my attempts to sway you and others toward my point of view.
When someone’s rights are violated, it’s everyone’s business.