I’m barefoot indoors 9 months per year - the other 3 are too cold. Then I wear Crocks with socks.
One thing I can never, ever do is walk around with just socks on. The house I grew up in had faux-marble tiles, and socks meant slipping and hitting your head and dying. Even now, when I have parquet, I can’t let my socks touch the floor. It’s a stylistic thing, too - either you’re wearing shoes, or you aren’t. Don’t half-ass it by walking around in socks.
To answer OP’s question, I’ll guess that if the invitation specifies ‘white tie’ then shoes are also expected. (Or do they then write ‘white tie and shoes’?)
In my early decades I almost always wore shoes except in bed. These days it’s the opposite: I’m always barefoot in the house. (So now I stub my toe(s) a lot, but no permanent damage yet.)
The last time I remember wearing shoes other than sandals was on a long jitney ride up the Cambodian coast in rainy season. A few times we all had to get out and help push the jitney through deep mud. At some point the shoes were so wasted I just threw them away. I don’t even remember if I have a pair of non-sandal shoes now or not.
Uh oh. A Thai slur is to call such feet usage มือฝรั่ง, “Westerner’s hands.” (There were no chuckles when I presented this little joke to my Westerner relatives. :eek: )
I hate being barefoot. If I leave the bedroom before getting showered and dressed, I’m wearing slippers. Once I’ve donned shoes and socks, they stay on till I go to bed. If I’m going to be doing muddy work outside, I’ll change to my grubby shoes in the garage, then change back before coming into the house.
I don’t like sandals, and I’ll only wear flipflops when I’ll be going in and out of a swimming pool or other body of water. It appears I’m in the minority here…
I take off my shoes the second I walk in the door and leave them off until the moment I leave. If I was at my parent’s house, it was a warm day and I needed something outside, I’d just go out barefoot (gotta watch out for the spindly plants though!) I’m living in an apartment currently though, and no way is that happening. Too worried I’d step in glass on the drive.
I’m not embarrassed about my feet at all. They look perfectly normal. No oddly-shaped toes or nails. Ironically though, I do have a club thumb (also known as a toe-thumb).
I assume in the thread title you mean “where”, not “wear”
A wedding in a building
A funeral
Most, if not, all restaurants (usually a shirt is required as well)
In most factories, usually steel toed are preferred or required
In a hospital as a visitor
I’ll join you in the flip-flop avoidance. Can’t wear the things. Any footwear I put on myself has to be fully connected to all parts of the foot - no flip flops, no crocs, no mules, 'cos if it CAN slip off, it undoubtedly will
I never wear shoes around the house. I always wear something when going out; I don’t like driving barefoot, and it’s a matter of protection the rest of the time.
If I’m in someone else’s house I’ll base my actions on whether there’s a pile of shoes by the door :D.
I’m clumsy - to the point of being a danger to myself. I’ve rolled my ankles so many times it’s a wonder I have any tendon / muscle / ligament strength left in them at all. And this is always when walking around wearing shoes. Barefoot, there’s no problem. But as noted, going without, outdoors, isn’t terribly healthy.
So yeah, with being on shutdown, the only times I wear shoes now are when I’m doing the weekly trip to the local shop for my CSA box.
Presumably what was meant was a community-supported agriculture box. (It may be a surprise to you to learn that a given acronym could mean two or more different things.)
Reminds me of when I went to Mardi Gras in New Orleans in the 80s. My boots got so thrashed from the grungy streets that my friends were calling them swamp boots. I ended up throwing them away when I got home. So sad. I really liked those boots.
I’m the opposite of the OP for the most part. I don’t like shoes. Mind, I wear shoes a lot of the time because I hate foot injuries even more, but inside my own home I’m barefoot. It has to be very cold before I will wear something on my feet indoors (below 0 F my floors do get very cold). Even down to about 35 degrees if I have to run down to the laundry room (requires brief trip outdoors) or out to my car on the lot I’m likely to just wear sandals. If it’s above 45 degrees I often won’t bother to put anything on my feet to step out on the concrete balcony/walkway to get my mail. No, my feet are not prone to being cold, in fact, one reason I don’t like shoes much, or slippers, is that my feet are quite warm on their own, thank you very much, and get overheated and sweaty when covered with typical slippers. Summertime I will wear sandals if I have a choice.
Work does require me to wear closed-toe shoes (which I agree with, particularly when I’m in the back of the store), and I do own a very heavy pair of leather boots that are awesome foot armor for circumstances where that would be a good idea, but again, I don’t wear those because I like them, I wear them because I hate foot injuries.
In winter I wear thick wool socks in my house, summer barefoot. No shoes in the house. That’s why we have a mudroom, to hang coats and take off shoes. It’s a farm, so believe me those boots better come off.
Outdoors I go barefoot on the lawn in summer, but otherwhere it is too dangerous or unpleasant – gravel road, barn with livestock, etc.
I feel rude wearing shoes inside other people’s houses so I always take them off.
I almost never wear shoes inside my home, except when I’m getting ready to go out. The only exception that comes to mind is - I want to do certain exercises, my mat is in the car and I can’t find my gripper socks. Then I’ll put on a pair of lightweight running shoes.
But I ALWAYS wear socks, I find a good pair of snuggly slightly supportive socks very comfortable, more so than bare feet. I always hated most bedroom slippers because they left my ankles exposed but I sometimes wear boot style bedroom slippers in winter if the house is cold.
The “no shoes in the house” thing is second nature to me because when I was working, most days I was working with clients in their expensive homes and “no shoes allowed” was the standard.
I have to challenge this. The second statement does not logically follow the first.
I grew up on a farm (first a working dairy, then just cattle and various crops) and got to spend summer vacations away from the farm…on a sheep ranch is the hills of Northern California.
Going barefoot on a working ranch is insane. Forget stepping on glass, there are various shards of metal discarded from quick repairs, boards with rusty nails sticking up laying in the grass (there is some rule of nature that rusty nails will always stick up out of a board, never down), sharp rocks and gravel (off the main highway, all roads are dirt and gravel), and a wide variety of poop (the biggest product, by volume, of a dairy farm is not milk). Even the swimming hole in summer had a rocky, not sandy beach, so you wore flip flops or came home bloody.
We had Keds (replaced at the start of each summer) and work boots for the rainy parts of winter (and for working the ranch during summer - Keds won’t stop a rattlesnake bite).
Growing up on a farm socializes you to the notion that barefoot is only for indoors.
Is it possible that that moat is filled with an antifungal. I remember pools that required that.
When I was growing up, I got in the habit of taking my shows off when I got home. I did the same at my mother-in-law’s house but she was quite put out by my behavior. She had grown up in Louisville and I gather that wearing shoes was a class thing. Now living in Montreal, it is unheard of to wear shoes indoors and I never do.