When "effete" is insufficient: Mantyhose

However, it won’t last for long. All the guys who wear tights at Ren Faire report the tights rub off all their leg hair after a couple of weeks.

Hear, hear. “Epicene” would probably be more appropriate.

Finally, something to wear with my Manties.

Well a fop does fit the idea of ‘effete’ pretty well, but might not be effeminate as such.

True, although I’m not sure it makes much sense with mantyhose. If epicene can be used to describe clothing I think it would have to be something commonly worn by both genders, like jeans.