Where did you Honeymoon?

Hubby and I had our honemoon at a Dopefest.

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Honest, we did. We were too busy at the time of getting married to go off anywhere, so we decided we’d go to the mountains later in the year. We ended up taking a trip to Georgia which morphed into DopeStock '04. We had a wonderful time! Georgia has beautiful state parks; if you’re looking for a low budget getaway I recommend Red Top Mountain State Park. If that’s too far away, look around your area. Illinois, Indiana, Wisconsin, Michigan - chances are you’re withing driving distance of a scenic getaway.

And I hope y’all have a great time !

We went to NYC a few months after we married in 1994. We stayed at our cousins, which was fine for the first five days, but on day 6 the Republicans took the House and Senate from the Democrats, so our last two days was spent listening to him rant and rave, trying to bait me on issues of politics and stuff. When we came back to the house on Saturday, after visiting the WTC, he announced that, “Btw, to show that the Forces of Oppression (yes, he talked in CAPS) can’t push us around, I’ve decided to throw an orgy tonight. Y’all are welcome to come, but I didn’t invite any other heterosexual couples.”

Before the election, we hadn’t even talked about politics. After it, it was all that mattered.

And no: we didn’t participate. We just gathered our stuff, went to LaGuardia, and caught the first flight home.

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Well, we didn’t participate, so we cheated ourselves out of that particular “adventure.” :wink:

We went to New Orleans. In July.

New Orleans = wonderful, amazing, funky and fun
In July = hell on earth, like a sauna with stale urine and beer

New Orleans IS fantastic! Though, as DeVena says, you might want to skip it in July.

As for the adventure thing, how about doing the mule ride down into the Grand Canyon? You can do that as a one-day, overnight or three-day trip.

Our wedding was very sudden (he proposed on Monday, we got married on Wednesday) and he hadn’t arranged for any leave. (Active duty Army at the time) He was stationed at TAMC on Oahu, so we went up to Turtle Bay on the North Shore - snorkeling, horseback riding on the beach, all the good stuff. Sure do wish we could afford to go back!

Oooh yeah, I wasn’t thinking about the time of year when I suggested New Orleans. We got married on New Year’s Eve. But since you said you’ll actually be taking the honeymoon in the fall or winter, you should be good. The walking tours were awesome! We took a vampire tour, and we not only got to hear a lot of old legends and see a lot of historic buildings, but they also took us to places where movies were filmed and other things of interest. I wish we’d done more of those.

How about Memphis? It’s reasonable to drive there from Chicago (I think). We both loooove good food. Even though touristy things can be lame I bet Graceland would be a hoot. Anybody from there or been there?

As it is I think I will seriously look into New Orleans or Savannah. Neither of us has spent any time in the south and I think it would be a ton of fun.

We got married in the summer of 1996. Our wedding was scheduled for a couple of weeks before the beginning of the 1996 Summer Olympic Games here in Atlanta, so our plan all along was to get married, take a day or two off, go back to work for bit, and then leave for our honeymoon about the time the Olympics started to avoid the crowds and inconvenience.

Originally, we were planning a trip to England, Scotland, and Ireland. The funds for this were supposed to come from my share of the proceeds of the sale of the company I worked for – complicated scenario, but basically the owner committed to giving the long-term employees who had shares and options in the company a cut of his proceeds once he was able to exercise his options in the acquiring company. Unfortunately, the new company dragged out the transfer process and basically stalled for months, during which time the stock price dropped from an all-time high to a point not far above the strike price for his options. When the time came to make travel arrangements for the honeymoon, this was all still up in the air, with no resolution in sight. The president of the acquiring company offered me a loan from the company for the amount I was expecting, to be paid back out of my cut, but I (wisely) decided I wasn’t comfortable with that, and declined (had I accepted, I’d have ended up still owing the company thousands once everything was settled). So we decided we would just make a driving trip up and down the eastern states.

We got married in Asheville, NC, and spent our wedding night at the Grove Park Inn, courtesy of one of my wife’s friends. We then headed back to Atlanta for a week or so, then back up to Asheville. From there, we drove up the Blue Ridge Parkway to Roanoke, VA the first day, spent the next couple days doing “Virginia Stuff” – visiting a cave near Staunton, Charlottesville and Monticello, etc. We stayed in Harrisonburg our last night in VA, and the next morning used the pregnancy test someone had given us as a gag wedding gift to find out she was, in fact, pregnant (probably conceived on our wedding night!). Went hiking in Shenandoah National Park that day, and my wife discovered that even that early in her pregnancy it was sapping her strength to a surprising degree – we hiked a mile or so downhill (with vertical drop of several hundred feet) to a waterfall, and I thought I was never going to get her out of there again.

We then headed on up I-81 into Pennsylvania to Harrisburg, where we took in a Harrisburg Senators game at what was then RiverSide Park, on City Island; Vladimir Guerrero was in right field for the Senators that night, and it was a treat to watch baserunners throw out an anchor and stop short at second on anything hit out there as he gunned the ball into third. Next day we did a tour of the Hershey factory complex in Hershey, PA, then headed north again. We made it to Cooperstown, NY in time to walk around a bit and grab a room at the Lake Front Motel, only a block from the Baseball Hall of Fame. Spent most of the next day at the HOF, followed by shopping and walking around in Cooperstown, then drove as far as Poughkeepsie, NY and crashed there for the night. We spent the next three days staying at a hotel in White Plains (my wife was too cheap to pay Manhattan hotel rates) and taking the train into NYC each day, doing the usual NY tourist stuff – Broadway, Times Square, Met, Jewish Museum, World Trade Center, etc. Then we headed down to the Washington, DC area and did the usual tourist stuff there, as well as visiting some of my wife’s relatives. Finally we headed back home – almost exactly two weeks after we started.

I can’t believe I’m going to be the first person to admit to honeymooning in Vegas. For the record, we didn’t get married there (that happened in Cambria, CA – halfway between LA and San Francisco), but my wife had never been to Vegas and we thought it’d be fun and relatively cheap to do. We were right on both accounts.

We were just your run-of-the-mill tourists. We walked through casinos, saw some great shows, visited the Marshmallow Factory in Henderson (R.I.P.) and just generally had a great time. Oh, and we spent some time in the hotel room too. :wink:

Of course, my wife had no idea at the time that we’d be going to Vegas three or four times a year for various bowling tournaments I’d be participating in, but she’s stuck now. :cool:

My father gave us a very expensive honeymoon in Norway: it was a spectacular experience in every way, but not one that we could ever afford on our own.

If you want an inexpensive, adventurous honeymoon, I urge you to consider coming down to the Appalachian Mountains and go whitewater rafting. It’s summertime, so you won’t mind getting wet; the rivers range from the placid (such as the Nantahala) all the way up to the hardcore (such as the Gaulee); and the Appalachian Mountains are, in my opinion, among the most beautiful places on earth.

The Nantahala Outdoor Center is an outfit that runs trips down several rivers in the region; they’re friendly, competent, and reasonably priced, and the folks that my family has used since I was a wee lad.

Daniel

Oh yeah, I forgot to mention the food in Savannah! Oh. My. Gosh. It is soooo good. Our favorite was The Lady & Sons, which is owned by Paula Deen, who is now on the Food Network. Even if you don’t like her show (it wasn’t on when we were there), you must go to the restaurant – the food is to die for, and it seems to be authentic Southern cookin’.

I know we went to a few other restaurants while we were there, but that’s the one we remember – we ate there twice in a week!

If you do decide to go there, I’d love to tell you more (where we stayed, etc.) – I think my email’s in my profile.

Oh man. Looking over the Nantahala website, I see that there’s a trip that combines staying at a local spa with a day of rafting down the Chatooga. This could be a fun honeymoon! (I’ve got no connection to them–I’m just living vicariously at this point).

Daniel

Savannah and Charleston would both be great choices, and they’re close enough that with a week you could actually do them both. New Orleans is the only southern city that can come close to them for history, but it’s an adventure trip of a sort in its own way. I suppose if N.O. appeals to you, you should do it now; at least in my case, I haven’t been seriously tempted to go back since I passed age 35, while I do still like going to Charleston and Savannah. If you’re looking for romance on your “honeymoon”, Charleston and/or Savannah would definitely have it all over Memphis or New Orleans, but if you’re still young enough to want to party all the time, go for Memphis or N.O.

You can fly from Midway to Savannah via Atlanta on Airtran in September for $109 each way (about $250 round trip with fees, etc. – or you can fly AirTran to New Orleans or Memphis for the same amount) – that sale ends tonight, but they’ll run another one between now and then. Actually, N.O. is even cheaper right now – you can fly ORD<–>MSY for under $200 pretty much any time this fall, and do it with a direct flight on United, American, or U.S. Airways.

To drive to Memphis from the Chicago area would be between 7 and 8 hours down I-57 and I-55, depending on your driving style. I really like Memphis a lot, but fall/winter’s not the best time to be there – one of the coastal cities would have more temperate weather.

There’d still be tons to do in any of those three cities, regardless of when you go.

We get married in a month and will honeymoon in Chicago! :smiley: We will see a Cubs game and go to the museums and aquarium. What else is fun and pretty inexpensive?

I would go to Memphis if I was a R&B or fifties-era rock and roll buff. Otherwise, I don’t really see it being a strong “vacationy” place.

[sniff]Oklahoma City [/sniff] I would not recommend it.

Cozumel is very nice and not terribly expensive.

Living in Hawaii, the wrong answer is… :mad:

Leavenworth, Washington. Stayed in a small crappy room at the Howard Johnson. We went back 12 years later and stayed at a small inn on the outskirts of town. We should have went there the first time.