Noted physicist and author Brian Greene addresses the theory (not original with him, by the way) of a holographic view of reality in his book and PBS NOVA series The Fabric of the Cosmos.
The general idea is that as matter falls into a black hole, the information content of the infalling material gets “spread out” on the “surface” of the event horizon. In theory, the information could be “recovered” from the surface using a technique not unlike recovering an image from a hologram.
By extension, the information content of our Universe might be “spread out” on its “surface,” recoverable in much the same way, and having similar attributes to a hologram. The limits to the Universe, however, are such that there is no way to “get at” this information in any—even theoretical—way.
After this tangential contact with genuine physics theory, the OP spirals into a drug-induced haze of surreality, kind of a Salvador Dali-meets-M. C. Escher.
The Dual-Slit experiment is a classic demonstration of the wave/particle duality theory in Quantum Mechanics. It has been explained and confirmed many, many times.
To cast the experiment as dealing with the “life” of a single photon goes way beyond the limits of even pseudo-science.
By one way of thinking, since time slows down as one’s velocity approaches the “Speed of Light” in a vacuum, and since photons are massless particles moving at light speed, the photon can be generated and travel the entire diameter of the Universe with no time passing in its own frame of reference.
To speak of the “life span” of a photon as if it was “alive”, and that the behavior of the photon changes because it “dies”, after traveling the distance across the experimental apparatus of a meter or two, is too woo-woo out there to even address.