That’s what I usually do, and that’s exactly what I said. If he likes a film, I’ll almost always like it too because he has great taste in movies and has steered me to several excellent films. It’s just that he doesn’t like a lot of films that I do like, and so I don’t even consider his opinion and don’t even read them if it’s something I want to see anyway. I might read it after I see the movie just out of curiousity, but not before.
If it’s a movie I want to see, as Stardust was, I don’t have to read his review in advance, and wouldn’t have no matter what. If I hadn’t liked it, I would have had to find out for myself.
I think of movies in various categories:
MUST SEE, NO MATTER WHAT, ASAP (Stardust was in this category)
Definitely want to see
Will probably see
Might see, depending on director, cast, story, and reviews
Someday, Maybe
Never In A Million Years
Critics have little say in my mind about the first three categories. I don’t even read what critics say about movies in the first two until after I’ve seen the movie. Critics can change my mind about the last three categories. I wanted to see, say, Knocked Up, but if it had been on my NIAMY list, the critics certainly would have made me want to see it and I would have been glad of it.
Dopers have the same clout. Good reviews from dopers can change a movie in the last 3 categories to being in the 2nd or 3rd.
I guess I trust Dopers, on the whole, more than you do. Most of us are saying Stardust is a good movie, but since a couple of people and Ebert didn’t like it, so you’re going with the negative view. That’s ok, there’s nothing wrong with that. Our mileage varies.
In any case, one of these days I’ll read Ebert’s review, but it’s not going to change the fact that I thought Stardust was, while not great, a pretty good movie. I though it was lots of fun, beautiful to look at, and well worth my time and money spent to see it in the theater. I want to see it again too and I’ll certainly buy the DVD when it comes out. I might not ever love it as much as I love The Princess Bride, but it would go on the same “shelf” so to speak.
ETA, I saw your post in the other thread. I’m a woman, not a guy.