What if the way the spacefarers do it is that they’ll show up right on time 10,000 years from now. And that may be millions of years from the last time they were here. That’s not very long if you’re a ship surveying a region with a dozen suns, right? What if that’s the best anyone can do? Is it unconceivable or simply annoying?
If they find communicating sentients, especially toolmakers, there we go - contact made. If not, they simply leave no trace of themselves as to not skew the natural environment. Perhaps they’ve saved us from a killer asteroid long ago that we did not know about. Perhaps they delivered the object before early Earth had cooled that gave us this sized planet with a large moon.
But they only show up every 3 million years at a time, with sensors in place should any thing of interest occurred. They may be making an unplanned left turn as we speak.
Also, why is our space funding going backwards? I have heard that there were times when every dollar put into NASA came back into the economy as much as seven or more. Much of it was in spin-offs, everything from new materials to freeze-dried foods. If you figure in the benefits of their influence on modern computing, we’re still riding on their dime. Russia also carries on, yet again not at capacity. Other than political bickering there’s not much good reason why we aren’t further ahead on this relatively inexpensive agency considering its results.
We’ve stopped going to the moon yet we have so much more science we could do there. Possibly nuclear fusion using its readily available Helium 3 as fuel, low gravity manufacturing, space telescopes, preps for Mars and onwards. We do good science, still we pull ourselves back from the void. The space station hasn’t been up to capacity. We’ve downsized our space programs after a period of great success and growth. Other than loss of life, there’s been less downside than upside. And the number of lost lives is surprisingly low.
Is this how it goes for other species over longer stretches of time? Who says the universe is rational? I gave a number of reasons why they aren’t here (yet?), but little’s been done in way of shooting them down. C’mon have some fun and tell me why not.
On the other hand, have you all heard about the space elevator? It could be in our lifetime and possibly surprisingly safe if predictions are right. If that worked, we could cheaply be into space in a huge way, especially using variations on the material needed for the elevator’s cable. That would provide me a better proof of Fermi’s paradox. There may be successive psychological barriers of moving into the void that slows the process down for sentients.
Thus as an additional issue, might we only meet their creations, never the creators or their progeny?