Doing work to help the family is still work, and clearly was not the point being made.
The point being made is that people have to work. You can work for an employer, or for yourself. You can work for lots of money, or little money, or no money at all. You can work for a profit-seeking enterprise or a not for profit enterprise. Or you can choose not to work. But SOMEONE has to work. One way or another, everything we have comes from us working. You have food to eat because people work. You have electricity because people work. You have clothes, a house, the computer you’re using, internet, pet food, furniture, eyeglasses, running water, protection from criminals and a service that tells you how likely it is to rain tomorrow because of people working. So someone’s gotta work. If you want to make some contribution to the human condition that requires you do some form of work. So if someone feels they shouldn’t work, well, why are they so special? What, are they royalty? A priest?
I mean, I don’t get the point @Spice_Weasel is trying to make when he says it “sounds pretty transactional” to work to afford food. Of course food is transactional. Someone had to grow it. Someone had to pick it. Someone had to transport it. Someone has to work for the government agency that tried to keep it clean and unadulterated. Energy and materials were used to make the food. It’s already been through a lot of transactions before you can acquire it as a consumer. Of course it’s transactional. A truly immense amount of WORK went into making food. So what’s the issue with the last step being another transaction?
Now, whether there’s a problem with people not working these days is a different matter. I don’t know anyone who doesn’t work and if there’s a swathe of people refusing to work around here, they seem very invisible.