There are many things that we joke about that aren’t funny when they really happen. Doesn’t mean the joke can’t be funny.
However… there’s more to jokes than pure humor. They can also show an attitude towards something. Someone who starts telling rape jokes out of the blue, especially to people they don’t know too well, is showing bad judgement and creepiness.
But everyone on earth is absolutely covered in these grotesque hood ornaments. I certainly can’t name a family member, friend or acquaintance that has never said something that causes me to groan internally. From a crappy sense of humor to belief in supernatural nonsense to conspiracy theories to hypocrisy to just rank stupidity.
We develop blind spots to most of these things because we can’t just go around thinking everyone is an asshole all of the time. However, some people like to really grasp onto one or two bugbears and elevate them into the dominant metric for someone’s character.
I guess it’s just another form of tribalism. You can’t easily divide people into convenient groups when there are countless different axes for classifying them. So instead you pick a small number of metrics and can carve out big swaths of people at a time.
I see absolutely zero problem here. If you make a music video depicting yourself violently murdering your girlfriend, mutilating her body, and dumping it in the ocean, then there are people that don’t want to pay you to perform your music at their venue. You don’t have some kind of entitlement for every college and every music festival to pay for your product, you have to compete with other acts that don’t promote extreme domestic violence.
These videos are in no way worse then Rhiannas’s videos about killing men in many ways. Any offensive video music is art, and censorship of art is tragic. I would advice Libertarians to buy censored videos to lessen Liberals’ influence on the market.