DSeid, I get where you’re coming from. I’ve seen all kinds of doctors myself, working in the medical field.
I can only think of one particular bad doctor I’ve personally had (ER doc, misdiagnosed a broken toe as sprained because he held the X-ray up to an overhead fluorescent light rather than a viewer), and apparently my pediatrician when I was little was pretty egotistical. Oh, and I once worked for one that you wouldn’t want working on you, but he was really nice and pleasant and spent time with his patients so he was fairly popular. :eek: In his specialty, you wouldn’t necessarily know that he may or may not be making the best decisions in your care… I preferred one doctor I worked for who I mentioned above, but he was so overbooked and never ran anything remotely resembling within an hour or two (at least) of “on time” due to how much explaining and talking and listening he’d do… and there really weren’t any fixes for that unless he got abrupt and cycled people through like clockwork, or started firing patients by the dozens until he got a smaller population to handle. But so many people wanted to see him.
Dealing with patients every day and being one myself at times, I know that a lot of people would do better (even me!) if they followed those “tips to get more out of your doctor’s visit” articles that pop up in magazines, online, etc. Stuff like a medication list with doses, when you started taking it; a list of your general medical history (diagnoses, dates, surgeries); a list of questions and medical complaints, that kind of thing. Don’t ramble, don’t talk about your friend who had X and would that pill work for your case, etc. I know it won’t work for every problem, but it makes your visit so much easier for the staff and for you too. I swear, I almost cry with joy when people pull out a list of meds, because it happens so infrequently. If you have relatives that you know will not stand up for themselves in such a way, who won’t speak up if an error happens, then try to find a way to assist them.
And for the love of all that’s good, if you think your doctor sucks, please find another one if it’s at all possible. Report crappy doctors to the medical staff office/Chief Medical Officer/whatever of the medical center they work for, if they are associated with one or with a hospital. Write a concise, fact-based letter outlining your issues, what you did to try to correct/rectify the situation, and recommend things like bedside manner instruction or something like that. Hospitals don’t like bad publicity, and they will usually appreciate a heads-up about doctors who suck for whatever reason.
And regarding the “House” quote above - yeah, some patients do lie. That really presents issues. Hopefully I’m anonymizing this enough… We had a case where a patient needed surgery, and was extremely eager to get it done ASAP. He had a medical clearance. Outpatient surgery was performed, and he was told that another doctor would be handling his post-op checkup the next day, squeezing it in amongst her other duties.
The patient was in pain the next day. This is to be expected. He was also a jerk.
Turns out he’d intentionally concealed an important bit of info before this so as to not delay surgery (else he’d have needed another procedure first, and he didn’t want to wait) and now this had caused complications. He yelled at the doctor about how she wasn’t listening to him (she had been, she just wasn’t agreeing with him), how she had to shut up and pay attention, he was going to report her to her boss, she was just running around dealing with other patients and ignoring him (sorry, she did have other patients, but part of his time was with her and a good amount was in testing), and a bunch of other stuff that drove her to the point where she merely excused herself and sent in one of the chief residents to reason and make nice with the guy. I have never seen her so livid.
The man’s adult son called later on, absolutely indignant over how we had supposedly treated his father. Due to HIPAA, there’s only so much you can say except that the situation was not as presented and that you are concerned that he is making poor health care decisions.