In order to describe anything I’ve experienced, I have to use words. In order to use words in a useful fashion, we have to have experiences in common, so that when I describe something, you, having had a similar experience, end up saying “Yeah, OK, that. Go on, I’m with you so far…”.
If you don’t, I can’t somehow magically DO SOMETHING and conjure up understanding in your mind by using some kind of MAGIC words that are going to make you understand. All I can do is what I’m already doing, which is to resay things in different form or go at it from slightly different angles in hopes that at some point you’ll go “Oh… well, I would not call that ‘prayer’ and I don’t see what it’s got to do with ‘God’, I don’t follow you at all when it comes to that stuff, but that process you’re talking about, yeah, I’ve done that”.
As far as defining, I’m not going to be able to do much better than “a process of concentration with emotional content that, generally speaking, is experienced by the person so engaged as communicative, i.e., as if they were in communication with something or someone, and out of which process tends to come understandings for which the person who had been so engaged cannot account in terms of conscious deliberation and reasoning on their part; as with the query part of the process, the portion of the process that involves experiencing those queries being answered is often described by the person so engaged as communicative, as if they were ‘replies’ or ‘responses’.”
If you want a definition that speaks to how the bloody hell it works, what processes of mind and observation are involved, which structures of the brain are most used in this, whether an EEG would show more alpha waves or what-have-you, etc, I can offer you no more than guesswork at best, and uninformed nonexpert guesswork at that.
if you want more of a philosophical treatise, e.g., in what ways is it an internal or subjective process and in what ways does it involve external observation or awarenesses of objective realities, some of that I’ve already taken a stab at.
If you want more of a religious elaboration, e.g., in what ways or on what grounds do I consider the process as I’ve described it to be that which other religious folks throughout history have described as “prayer”, and how it relates to “God”, etc, I suppose I can do that, but I think it becomes a ‘castles in the air’ kind of mental architecture, one in which the limitations of understandings and the limitations of words to convey them both work against ever nailing it down any better than people over the course of centuries have succeeded in nailing it down in the past.
What I’d like to know from you is what’s your point of entry into this conversation? My original post, as I said, was a response taking up the challenge of some people who said they could demonstrate the lack of efficacy of prayer.
It would be good to know if you’re making an overall assertion or if you’re simply posting to say “pardon me but I don’t understand this part over here” and/or “I am not at all nodding to what you’re saying, it seems internally contradictory or nonsensical” just as a form of feedback for me - ??
As I’ve already said, I have no interest, and no belief in my ability if I did have interest, in convincing you that you should utilize concepts that I use, and certainly not that you should utilize the same terms for them that I use if you do use them. I think it would be arrogant of me if I did.
If you are attempting to mount the claim that in order to not be considered illogical or stark raving nuts or something I should cease to utilize the concepts that I use, I find that rather arrogant of you and don’t consider you to possess the authority to make that determination. If, on the other hand, you are more curious than dismissive and are trying to see if perchance we can bridge the gap, and you can understand the concept and get where I’m coming from, that’s different and I’m still up for that.
But if we’re going to explore that, we’re first going to have to take a closer look at what appears to be your position that abstractions are things that don’t exist, and that things that do exist are not abstractions.