Why don't Americans use "mate" when talking to others?

Wrong thread mate.

Bolding mine.

Yo.

Why don’t we use “mate”? Too British, dude.

Right! Good thinking, yo! How could I forget “yo”, man?

When I hear ‘mate’, I think husband or wife, so for me, at least, it would be a confusing usage to refer to a pal or friends as a mate.

:smiley: It’s my go-to. And depending on inflection it can be anything from a friendly invitation to frolic all the way to fighting words.

Wrong KINDA mate.

If I haven’t put my penis in you, you aren’t my mate.

I thought in Canada, you used “eh.”

PS: In Brooklyn, the go-to is “motherfucker.”

In the CG, we might call someone “shipmate”.

I like that. Very Father Mapple.

“We like to say ‘What’s up, guy?’
It’s our way to say hi.
In February
It is good to know a plow guy”

i think we just have more than one term which we pick based on the situation or the social circle. “Man,” “dude,” “buddy,” etc.

Ooh, harsh bro.

That funny, TriBROlar!

I am reading a book about WWII in the Pacific, and it mentions that American servicemen stationed in Australia got into the habit of calling other guys “mate”.

TriPALar!

Don’t ask, don’t tell!!

I think you have the question backwards. Mate means well, your mate. Someone you have sex with. Not a friend. Well, ok, sometimes you mate with a friend. Why do you call your friends and buddies “mates”