Why don't federal prisons have conjugal visits

A weird thing is conjugal visit programs did not originate in some progressive ideal of reform and enlightenment. It was in fact almost the complete opposite. Conjugal visits originated in racism.

Conjugal visits started in prison systems in the old south and it was based on the belief that black men were more sexually driven than white men. The belief was that white prisoners could be denied sex and would still behave. But if you didn’t give black prisoners sex they’d be uncontrollable. So informal systems were set up so prisoners could have sex with their wives and girlfriends and be kept “docile”. (I imagine a lot of black prisoners figured “Finally, some racism that’s working in my favor.”)

Being from Connecticut, where they are routine, I assumed this was universal. Connecticut can be a strange little bubble at times…

Most prison sentences are shorter than a full pregnancy term (misdemeanors versus felonies).

No, they aren’t. Most prison sentences are at least a year. People convicted of misdemeanors and sentenced to less than a year generally do their time in a local jail. I assume jails don’t typically have conjugal visit programs.

Sounds good to me

Misdemeanors and sentences less than one year generally go to jail, not prison. And I doubt that many jails have conjugal visits.

ETA: or what friedo said.

Conjugal visits would increase my workload by bringing in more STDs.

Then say that.

I assume that if you’re in a SSM, a conjugal visit would actually encourage homosexuality.

Most prisoners aren’t in a same sex marriage.

Job security and you might get a raise.

I suspect neither would be much of an inducement for our dear QtM, given the headaches such a policy would bring.

And if they were?

At least two states (California and New York) which have conjugal visits recognize same-sex marriages for the purpose of the program.

Well, it’s a new thing most places. It will probably become more common in the years ahead.

You just wanted to use the abbreviation and make me look it up.

Italics added.

:smiley:

I’ve heard/read that the Mossad (truly) has capitalized on some anti-Semitic tropes of the all-seeing hidden power of Jews.

While we’re at it maybe we should provide frozen yogurt machines, maybe if we coddle prisoners they won’t be so inclined to set fire to their mattresses.

Oh, for Pete’s sake, stop with the hijack. Sometimes, I swear, Dopers are more interested in beating others into conformity with their beliefs than discussing the topic.

You can’t coddle them without conjugal visits!

The OP topic included the issue of homosexuality and conjugal visits. No hijack here.

Now, the precise question that was asked concerned the lack of conjugal visits in federal prisons. They just don’t. Perhaps the BOP thinks it would be too much logistical effort. Remember also that in many cases (most?), the federal prisoner is much much further from home.