My God, my head hurts.
Cartooniverse: I’ve seen you on this board for years, read your posts, have no quibble with you. It’s obvious that for some reason, this subject bothers you. But you need to realize that just because you feel a certain way, it doesn’t obligate everyone else, nor does it prove you right (or wrong, for that matter). I am one of the more liberal members of the board when it comes to the subject of sex and minors, yet even I have found myself on the prudish side of an argument in this thread.
I was astonished that I was the only one who was bothered by the scenario presented, much as you must be now.
Still, while we’re each entitled to our own opinion (and I still think the motivation behind the episode in my thread was inappropriate), we ARE asking the opinion of other people. We can’t begrudge them their point of view.
So, that all being said, I would have to disagree with your statement:
First of all, Society Says: NO IT ISN’T, because: If “faking intimacy” is abuse, why isn’t “faking murder” abuse? Why not “faking dismemberment” abuse? Why not “faking abandonment” abuse? You can protest all you want, “Don’t tell me it’s fake!” but it IS* FAKE. The minors involved understand that, even if you don’t.
Maybe you have a particular beef with sexuality and children (many people do, maybe you do, maybe you don’t, no accusations here), but that doesn’t make it everyone else’s fault. The FACT is, “faking intimacy” ISN’T considered abuse anymore than faking anything else. It’s FAKE, for God’s sake! Sure, if it’s going to be an intense experience, there are people there to minimize the damage done to the minor (Linda Blair of the Exorcist had a psychological profile done on her before she was signed for the role (I believe), as well as Jodie Foster for “The Little Girl who Lived down the Lane” and others). There are also other classic roles played by minors that might fit into your “outrage profile:” Brooke Shields (12 years old) in “Pretty Baby”, Dominique Swain (15 years old) in the Adrian Lyne remake of “Lolita”.
In short, while I join you in your concern for the well-being of children in the media, I believe that in this case, your outrage is thorougly misplaced.