I DO NOT WANT THIS IN THE BBQ PIT
In the other threads about the Texas Judge shown savagely whipping his 16 year-old daughter, (he was secretly videotaped while actually in the process of assaulting her, so there is NO doubt about if he actually did it) almost NO ONE is taking the mother to task for both participating in the abuse (good ol’ Mommie Dearest gets in a few choice licks on her own, even while Dad is out of the room) as well as ever originally condoning such violence in her presence in the first place.
This woman was married to a State Judge, (I think it said he made somewhere around $90,000 per year) clearly not living in a trailer park, so presumably she could have gotten herself and her children out of the situation and into protective surroundings MUCH easier than other women in similar situations, who may not have access to Social Services or other types of help.
The Daughter has forgiven Mom, (which is certainly her prerogative) and Mom is crying that she was also abused by Big Bad Judge Meanie, (not hard to believe for anyone who has watched the video) and so naturally she is just another VICTIM TOO, and clearly not culpable for her own part in the abuse.
HORSESHIT
Simple question—Why does this kind of blame dodging and denial of personal responsibility carry any weight with the public at large?
If the genders were reversed, would even a single person alive today think that the Husband/Father was coerced into joining in with the beatings by his abusive Wife?