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it really is a provincial language spoken as a native tongue only in one specific part of India (the area around Bombay).
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Although the broad outlines of your post are more or less correct, the details miss the mark. Hindi is not the native language of Bombay, as other posters have stated.
It has little to do with Bollywood itself. Most Indians speak multiple languages and the tendency is to speak all of them at once (more or less).
[QUOTE=Angua]
I do feel that Bollywood played a part; by the late 1940s, the rise of Bollywood had been so great, that more people across India did know Hindi, moreso than they would say for example Bengali.
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I believe it was not until the 1970s or 1980s that the influence of Bollywood became so strong that Hindustani became popular throughout India. In the 1940s, the idea that Hindi would be the national language was very controversial, and sparked violent rebellion.
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I watch it at my SO’s (Indian-born) parents’ house. Discussing a show once, I asked about the language, and was surprised when my SO’s dad told me that they weren’t speaking Hindi at all, but Hindustani. He said that, in fact, Hindustani is what is generally spoken in all Hindi shows and movies. It’s a mix between Urdu and Hindi.
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As others have noted, it’s not a mix. Urdu and Hindi are standardized dialects of Hindustani. So if you are speaking Urdu or Hindi, then you are speaking Hindustani, but if you are speaking some other (non-standardized) dialect of Hindustani, you are not necessarily speaking Urdu or Hindi.
[QUOTE=Angua]
Oops, I hadn’t realised that. I thought that Punjabi would have been just as predominant? Mind you, that said, nowadays, Hindi is also spoken very heavily around my grandparents’ hometowns too…
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There is a dialect continuum in the northern part of the Indian subcontinent, stretching from the Northwest Frontier Province (Pakistan) to Bihar (India). It’s often not easy to delineate exactly where one “language” (say Panjabi or Hindustani) starts and where another begins.
Specifically, with regard to Panjabi and Hindustani, there seems to be a tendency for Sikh Panjabis to call their language “Panjabi” and for Hindu Panjabis to call their language “Hindi,” though they might be speaking the exact same dialect.
So, it’s not always easy to tell exactly what’s going on with language in that area.